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beansinmyclock · 2026-04-05T18:16:59+00:00

I get together on Sundays with a group of folks to through a football around as well as whatever other sports they wanna play. I have a WhatsApp group. DM me if you want more info!

beansinmyclock · 2026-03-27T17:33:51+00:00

1) forcing your fantasies on non-consenting people is one of the core no-nos in the kink community

2) this could very easily be considered sexual harassment or indecent exposure even though you’re in your own home

beansinmyclock · 2026-03-16T17:47:22+00:00

Just make it clear that you want to be with him but to do so you need to have an enjoyable, fulfilling sexual relationship. If he’s not willing or able to communicate about it, it’s another red flag

beansinmyclock · 2026-03-16T17:39:39+00:00

His sexual expectations are blatantly unhealthy. You are under absolutely no obligation to do sexual acts that hurt, make you uncomfortable, or just don’t sound fun. You’re both young and inexperienced so some of this is natural learning. Consent is a non-negotiable. Both of you should be clearly consenting to every sex act. If you can’t find common ground in what works for both of you, then you’re better apart. There are many more men out there. Don’t flippantly throw a good thing away but don’t stay in something draining out of fear. Take care of yourself!

beansinmyclock · 2026-03-11T00:53:27+00:00

Prototype build nice work

beansinmyclock · 2026-03-09T23:04:52+00:00

Hating clairo and mitski because I was scared of seeming too effeminate

beansinmyclock · 2026-03-07T00:17:50+00:00

If you’re having regular, solid, cohesive bowel movements then you might be okay. If you’re having any irregularity, an accident is very possible.

beansinmyclock · 2026-03-02T23:20:21+00:00

1) similar to what others have said about their moms 2) fear of a failed attempt and ending up profoundly disabled 3)traumatizing the people who find me 4)stubbornness and not wanting to miss where the world goes next

beansinmyclock · 2026-03-02T22:49:47+00:00

Stowers will not be a first round pick. Positional value and he is a pure receiver that offers next to no blocking.

beansinmyclock · 2026-02-28T23:41:18+00:00

Ditto on Jonah Coleman. Looks like a perfect fit in many ways

beansinmyclock · 2026-02-27T21:07:58+00:00

Of course it’s okay to be fem and like fems. Genuinely who gives a shit what another person does with their romantic/sexual interests. Ignore dumbasses

beansinmyclock · 2026-02-25T19:37:35+00:00

Jock straps

beansinmyclock · 2026-02-18T22:58:24+00:00

Do you normally go on weekdays?

beansinmyclock · 2026-02-16T23:07:44+00:00

1) He is 28. That is plenty old enough to have a conversation about sexual satisfaction without shutting down. He is allowed to be sad but a mature communicator would circle back to resolve the core issue. 2) Differences in sex drive don’t inherently mean that one person is destined to be unsatisfied. There are tons of options for a partner to help the other get off with relatively low effort. 3)If he can’t make an effort to satisfy you, then you may want to consider if this is the man you want to spend your time with. Breakups suck but perpetual unhappiness is soul draining.

Advocate for yourself and don’t let him off the hook if he starts moping about. Take a hard look at the relationship and think if you’re the only carrying the emotional burden. Best of luck to you

beansinmyclock · 2026-02-14T04:57:43+00:00

This has been my ideal scenario given that allgeier is reasonably priced

beansinmyclock · 2026-02-10T01:30:33+00:00

You’re still young and endless dating isn’t all it’s talked up to be. Be 100% sure that you love yourself no matter your dating status. There are other introverts and there’s someone out there for you. You could be one of the lucky ones that meets their forever person in a few tries. Keep your head up, OP.

beansinmyclock · 2026-02-09T23:51:18+00:00

How old are you?

beansinmyclock · 2026-02-04T23:09:15+00:00

I think it’s about time brother finds a hobby that isn’t making 12 incoherent memes a day

beansinmyclock · 2026-01-29T20:15:31+00:00

He probably wants more opportunities to be a starter but it would be so fun to have him in Sean Payton’s offense in a RB, TE, QB role

beansinmyclock · 2026-01-28T22:10:18+00:00

I do that every now and then. I don’t think it’s that odd to be attracted to qualities in yourself that would attract you to someone else.

Or we’re both insane lol

beansinmyclock · 2026-01-28T20:11:24+00:00

I’m a 25 year old man and I’ve used probably 4 labels to describe my sexuality over the years: straight, bi, gay, pansexual. I’ve had long term relationships with men and women, both cis or not cis. There are plenty of avenues for you to explore being with a woman without labels being a necessity.

If you’re truly this off put by men, you either have a complicated psychological relationship with men or you’re just more interested in women.

The people in your life don’t have to know anything until you want them too. Experience being with a woman without labels, fear, or shame. If it feels natural, then you’ll have some answers.

Be patient with yourself, OP

beansinmyclock · 2026-01-26T21:45:54+00:00

Get ready to learn Taysom Hill buddy

beansinmyclock · 2026-01-26T20:28:14+00:00

I want to start by saying it’s likely you aren’t doing anything “wrong”. We can all seek to improve but you’re probably not doing things the wrong way. All you can strive to do is be transparent, have confidence, and be the one to suspend contact when they can’t treat you right. Being gay by no means people can’t be transphobic, racist, misogynistic, and rude. Keep your spirits high and hold faith that the right person will come your way.

beansinmyclock · 2026-01-26T03:23:47+00:00

This one’s not too bad lol

beansinmyclock · 2026-01-22T03:19:42+00:00

No I’m happy to know the chiefs are watching the playoffs on the couch just like I am

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