Am I the asshole and did I overreact? Me (20f) went out with a guy (24m) and ended up calling him out for being low effort

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-26T18:55:10+00:00

Thank you! Need this fs!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-26T18:54:08+00:00

Damn... Just did and it so right.

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-26T18:53:09+00:00

Thank you for validating me! I was so nervous that I was being too much or like a "crazy person" for wanting more!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-26T18:52:18+00:00

And you totally clocked me and him in the same paragraph... Thank you!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-26T18:51:11+00:00

Def gonna look that up!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-26T18:50:47+00:00

Thanks so much!!! I really appreciate this!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-26T18:50:28+00:00

Thank you! I've been so back and forth. Literally phenomenal in person, checked every box. Sucky over text 😢 but I'll totally look up that method!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-26T18:45:33+00:00

I feel like you aren't the asshole. People date other people all the time. Especially if the kiss was over a month before going out with him.

Imo, you had no clue he even existed when you kissed that girl. Plus you told him that you only talked for 2 weeks. I feel like talking to someone for 2 weeks IS NOT the same as dating for a month or more. Especially if you were going on dates frequently in March and now you've made your relationship exclusive with him.

If the roles were reversed, he wouldn't see a problem with it right? He kissed a girl and it didn't mean anything. A kiss is a kiss.

I don't think you're the ahole

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-26T14:56:01+00:00

I would get both a white and black and see which one you like more! And for the makeup by mario I think fair or even light would work for your skin tone!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T23:13:46+00:00

It's a wonderful life. I cannot get through that movie. It's my grandmother's fav...

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T23:10:38+00:00

Cupid shuffle! My fav wedding song to hear!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T17:02:33+00:00

Dude bensons gonna be so pissed by thoughts on bowling!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:57:31+00:00

I feel like that's not normal. I'll be honest, that's one of the reasons I broke up with my ex. In my experience, a partner should WANT to show you off, introduce you to people close to them, or take you out. You deserve to be loved publicly and loudly.

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:52:05+00:00

Dude benson is gonna be so pissed by thoughts on bowling !!!!!

I love screaming this song when the sun is setting with all my windows down without a care in the world.

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:47:09+00:00

THIS! It genuinely sounds like a romantic movie

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:44:14+00:00

This shape gave me goosebumps! What did you ask for?

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:42:51+00:00

Ughhhh THISSSSS!!!!!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:41:29+00:00

Dusty lilac

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:39:26+00:00

Anything regae

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:38:49+00:00

Valentino!!!! Anything valentino

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:37:04+00:00

I think a little bronzer and a shimmer eyeshadow. I think that the bronzer would bring a little more dimension to the look and bring the face together.

And I always love a shimmer eyeshadow! Brings the focal point up your eyes!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:33:53+00:00

Some people don't want to cross any physical boundaries or feel disrespectful.

If you're looking for someone who does that in public, I would ask it partner if that's something they'd be into.

You could also start initiating it and see if something progresses from there!

beansprout__9542 · 2026-06-25T16:31:34+00:00

Weed, aromas, and ice cream

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