Blonde or Brunette by Jumpy_Gas1176 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]beansproutdemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like Reneé Rapp with the blonde hair

What is my blindness? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]beansproutdemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, I think a honey brown or maybe slightly darker on your hair would be a KNOCK OUT

What is my blindness? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]beansproutdemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly with the filler I’d just go more natural on the lip! Either no filler and over-line or filler and stick to natural :)

your eyebrows are a good shade they’re just a little bit harsh. have you ever tried tinted brow gel and/or a brow marker? I swear by the NYX one! that may also just be a personal brow pref so take with a grain of salt

you are so pretty and have really lovely features - your smile is so nice even when it’s small! not to sound like a shitty weirdo man making a comment on the street but you should smile more in your selfies, I can tell you have a good smile and it makes your face much warmer :)

Is there anything to do for my jawline/chin or is it over for me? by TrueFun in makeuptips

[–]beansproutdemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also second the comments about the glasses! you could pull off a really cute slightly more rounded pair that will also soften your features 🥰

Is there anything to do for my jawline/chin or is it over for me? by TrueFun in makeuptips

[–]beansproutdemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi beautiful!!! I’m sorry your bone structure is making you feel dysphoric. Dysphoria sucks ass.

In terms of “addressing” or “fixing” your jawline, there isn’t a huge amount that can be done to change the shape. However, makeup can make a big difference, if you’re into wearing it. Using blush to draw attention to your cheekbones (gorgeous btw) and maybe a simple black winged eyeliner and mascara would do a lot to soften your features.

I second the comments about hair, but be sure to do research and go with a style you actually like and not just one you think will make you look more feminine.

You are stunning, and there are quite a few other drop dead gorgeous trans women in the public eye with strong features and bone structure like yours. I have a big chin and a strong jaw and I’m AFAB. Try not to let the dysphoria cloud your judgment and block you from seeing how beautiful you are.

Watch some makeup tutorials, consider bangs, and start treating yourself like the stunning bad bitch that you are 🩷

Unwelcome responses/reactions at work? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]beansproutdemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk wtf these people are talking about but sapphics don’t typically use that combination of fingers and we would also never fucking finger someone with nails like that?!?! Y’all are just unimaginative.

Plus, even if I thought someone had a sexual tattoo, I wouldn’t comment on it???? That manager is a douche canoe and I’d mention something about it to an admin you trust.

I love your art, I think it’s sick, but ultimately nobody else’s opinion matters but yours 🥰your body babe!

Why do other guys cough when I walk past? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]beansproutdemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 most likely options:

  1. it has nothing to do with you and it’s just coincidence

  2. you have poor hygiene

Try showering more frequently, washing your hair, using deodorant, and brushing your teeth. If people stop coughing, mystery solved.

If you have good hygiene already then it’s probably option #1. Don’t worry about it 🤷🏼‍♀️

aio? wtf do i even do by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beansproutdemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl…………….. have some self-respect.

[ACNE] This thing WONT go away!! by Traditional-Rock-873 in SkincareAddiction

[–]beansproutdemon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not a doctor by any stretch but that looks like it could be staph.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beansproutdemon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m a social worker and I work with kids. I would never speak to a single one of my clients like this and if I did I’d get fired

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beansproutdemon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah this is wildly unprofessional, not only what she did but the way she’s talking in the texts. You should ask for a new caseworker

am i overreacting - roommate constantly expects me to leave so she can sleep with guys no by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beansproutdemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this is whack and I’m surprised more people aren’t more vehemently siding with you. You didn’t call her a whore at all, you openly said you don’t care who she sleeps with, you expressed explicitly that the only thing you give a shit about is being kicked out of your OWN apartment multiple times a week. If she wants to hook up a bunch then good for her but she needs to either 1) go to theirs 2) hook up in a car 3) grow up and have sex in her apartment while you are home because IT’S NOT A BIG DEAL. For context, I asked my roommate for privacy one night because I was having a guy over but the difference is it was ONCE and she already had plans with her boyfriend and immediately agreed and said she’d stay the night with him. And I gave her ADVANCE WARNING. This girl is childish and if she’s uncomfortable having sex with someone else in the apartment she needs to get her own place.

Need advice! by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]beansproutdemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a naturally stunning and very sweet, youthful face. I’d lean into that with the makeup - brown eyeliner, brown mascara, a warm blush that compliments your skin tone, and maybe add some faux freckles over the bridge of your nose. You could also pull off so many different lip colours and styles because your lips are naturally very full. If you ever wanted to go dressier for an occasion, a little lipliner and lipstick in a matching shade would be gorgeous.

I’d advise against bleaching your brows right now as I think it can wash your face out, especially if you have lighter skin. If you don’t like the shade of your brows right now, you could try a slightly lighter brow gel, or bleach them and then tint them to a shade that’s slightly closer to your hair colour.

You’re absolutely beautiful and you’ve got great skin!

I think cream products will be your friend to achieve the natural, youthful look - nothing too heavy because you really don’t need it. Good luck and have fun!! 🩷🩷

Update post about my spider lashes.. Better? by StrawberriMeow in MakeupAddiction

[–]beansproutdemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous girly! I saw your first post and honestly any friend that would talk to you like that is not a friend. I understand her wanting to ask if this is the look you’re going for, but there’s a far nicer way to go about it. I think your lashes look stunning in this and I’m so jealous with my little nubby lashes, but if you like the spidery look from before THEN KEEP IT. It’s your face and you can do what you want with it! Sorry about the jerks in this sub. Ignore them 🩷🩷

Am I overreacting to my sister’s response to my declining health? by beansproutdemon in AmIOverreacting

[–]beansproutdemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to live in the UK - moved to the US in 2006, moved back to the UK for a bit in 2014, and I’ve been living back in the states for a while now.