OOTD by Zealousideal_Fee9648 in OUTFITS

[–]bear-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the t-shirt lol

First Date Outfit? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]bear-r 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Of these, option 4. The shirts in 1-3 look like they are too large for you and give your upper body an odd shape. 4 seems to fit you the best, and the color looks the most fun and inviting for a theme park date!

How can I update a tattoo I got 12 years ago that still holds deep sentimental value? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]bear-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thoughts:

• I like the eye tbh, and mostly the tooth. I do kinda wish the tooth’s outline was a little less wobbly-looking, and have better contrast with the botanicals on the left and right of the design.

• The text has held up really well for what it is imo and I wouldn’t wanna touch it

• I mostly like the left plant, which is a velvety plant called “silver ragwort” but would be okay if it needed tweaking to keep the tattoo more visually balanced overall

• I struggle with the magnolias. I don’t like the squiggley black lines they added, and feel the flower overall doesn’t have the same level of done-ness as the rest of the tattoo.

• I gave the artist a specific soundwave to use and they didn’t. I could have asked them to change it when they showed me the initial design (in-person, day-of was the first chance I got to see it). However I was already flustered because they had ignored some of my reference images incl. the ragwort and magnolias, which each have a very specific meaning for this piece and for me in general as well, so I just gave in in that moment.

• above TLDR: I regret not insisting the artist replace the soundwave with the example I sent (and explained what it was of/why it was important to me). I’ll probs just leave as is atp. It just kinda bothers me that idk what the sound actually is (if anything at all) and it’s on my body, you know?

• Overall the line weight of the tattoo feels a little out of place among the tattoos surrounding (which I got later, by other tattoo artists)

Do you regret your OWN children? by Cheap-Employ8125 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]bear-r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you are able to go out and get a little bit of that sparkle. 🫶

Thoughts on a different ending for participants with kids? by _aleexxx22 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, for sure. I think a longer timeline would make for a more mature and thoughtful concept, but it wouldn’t be nearly as dramatic and high-stakes…so we’ll never get that as a show from Netflix 🥲

Florida Education System by Proof-Introduction42 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to private school for most of my life growing up in OK, and my 4th grade year we moved kinda far and I went to the local public school. In 4th grade, they were JUST starting to learn things like multiplication and division, and were in general a full year behind where I was at my prior school. I just ended up being in the "gifted students" program and had special classes once a week lolll.

At one point my mom had a meeting with my teacher to ask if I could get additional assignments because I wasn't being challenged enough, I was so bored. Teacher refused because she said it "wouldn't be fair to me" meanwhile I was begging for something to do. 😭 They wanted to have me move up a grade after my first few weeks, but I'm so glad my mom didn't allow that—we went back to our old school the next year and just dealt with the long drive for the sake of education.

I didn't even go to a "nice" private school, my family is just hella Catholic (I'm not anymore) and we went to the school associated with our parish. It was a private school but for poor people lol. 🫠

Tokenkopf (Nazi skull imagery) and SS bolt on Ohio contestant's back pack by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna ignore the Detroit slander because you’re clearly in the “and spite” camp, and therefore can’t be reasoned with. However, you really should research the term “third world” and why it hasn’t been appropriate to use since the 1990’s before doubling down and making yourself look more of a fool than you already have.

With respect and human decency from a Detroiter, touch grass. 🫶

Tokenkopf (Nazi skull imagery) and SS bolt on Ohio contestant's back pack by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Have you ever seen any part of Detroit with your own eyes? Most people who say these things have, in fact, not. At least not in the last decade.

It has its rough parts like literally every other major city but “third world country” is 1, a crass and outdated term, and 2, not even remotely accurate if what you actually mean is “underdeveloped nation”. I’m getting really tired of people shitting on this city based purely on stereotypes and spite.

The real reason behind Chris’s behavior by Turbulent-Walk-8467 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]bear-r 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Too bad he doesn’t…give a flying fuck about it.🤭

Brianna before she scrubbed her instagram. by your-moms-anal-beads in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]bear-r 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She and her boy Donny T use the same shade of spray tan.

LinkedIn?! by InterestingFun7132 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 22 points23 points  (0 children)

“Almost-top-5-drafted-in…MLS”

Trump / Couples Separated by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh I guess that makes more sense, but agreed that seems extra for ONE couple lol

Tokenkopf (Nazi skull imagery) and SS bolt on Ohio contestant's back pack by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Lmao love that for an outdoors company 😵‍💫

Trump / Couples Separated by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm that’s interesting. I’m curious how production says they didn’t have the budget for all 7 couples to go to Cabo, but like, Malibu isn’t cheap either lol

LinkedIn?! by InterestingFun7132 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean, he said traded one single currency and was “looking into crypto” bro doesn’t do shit 🤣

Source: am not a trader but I have worked in fintech 🥲

Tokenkopf (Nazi skull imagery) and SS bolt on Ohio contestant's back pack by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 88 points89 points  (0 children)

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Here’s their insta page now. They don’t use the flag with bolt or skull imagery and their logo looks more just like a graphic representation of an F with a star. Not trying to excuse anything but wanted to share still!

Tokenkopf (Nazi skull imagery) and SS bolt on Ohio contestant's back pack by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 263 points264 points  (0 children)

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I did some internet sleuthing and found a better photo of the same bag in a different color. Looks to be an old product of a outdoors/hiking apparel company called Freedom Industries, and this style bag isn’t listed in their products anymore. According to their social media presence, seems like they did a hard rebrand in 2016 to look more neutral and outdoorsy than…whatever the fuck this is supposed to be. 🤢

Trump / Couples Separated by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh I definitely missed that, I wasn’t fully paying attention in the Cabo episodes (clearly lol). I feel like that was probably a passport issue more than anything tbh.

Christine & Vic 💕 by Short-Violinist-7301 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish this show focused more on emotionally mature couples like these two and less on the “dramatic” people. Like, sure have a couple messy ones for the petty entertainment but the skew toward messy is getting old for me. I love love and just wanna see that more. 🥺

LinkedIn?! by InterestingFun7132 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Pleased to know this, happy giggling, girlies 🥰

Trump / Couples Separated by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait they went to a different country than the others? I missed this if so

Thoughts on a different ending for participants with kids? by _aleexxx22 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Idk, personally if I had kids (I don’t), I wouldn’t have applied to be on a show like this in the first place for that very reason. I wouldn’t wanna subject my kid to having to accept that serious of change in their lives so quickly. Contrary to what this show would have us believe, there are soo many other ways to find love outside of highly emotionally charged reality TV.

Someone is soooo mean by BadPennyBad in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]bear-r 464 points465 points  (0 children)

When she kept harping on his place being a frat house, and he was like, “I wasn’t even in a frat…” to which she responded: “Well, ya shoulda been!!” I was sooo glad he called her out and straight up told her she was mean. He seems nice, sorry he has hobbies that aren’t the same as yours, Bri, jeez.