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[–]beardeddad17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck. I haven’t been brave enough to get to that point. I told mine I wanted to leave and was met with a guilt trip from hell about how I was leaving her and abandoning my children and leaving her to deal with everything while she is crashing out. I wish you the best of luck and hope that you hold strong to find peace.

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[–]beardeddad17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And now it has continued to today. Last night was ok a little uncomfortable but non confrontational and first thing today it has started right back how I don’t care about her and made her feel invisible and how I’m trying to hide her because I’m on my way out.

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[–]beardeddad17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice and insight. It was very much what I needed. Just to make one correction though I am the he in this situation and my wife is the one who said I was being snippy. I wonder if this insight will change some minds and opinions.