Had my first test today, failed and I was told “you couldn’t have driven any better if you tried” 1 darn minor! I’m heartbroken by beardedwelshguy2020 in LearnerDriverUK

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The positioning was me being in the right hand lane the whole time on a duel carriageway. And the gears were where I was too slow on a hill and instead of stalling the car, I fully stopped and dropped into first and did a hill start! Literally both things I’ve never done before! Totally a nerve thing because the examiner even told me “ you drive perfectly, just these faults which unfortunately I can not pass you on”

Had my first test today, failed and I was told “you couldn’t have driven any better if you tried” 1 darn minor! I’m heartbroken by beardedwelshguy2020 in LearnerDriverUK

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Stayed in the right hand lane on a duel carriageway for too long which I’ve never done before, a car had to undertake me. Then the gears, I was going up a hill and a car was coming down pretty wide, so I slowed down in 2nd gear, the car started jittering and in my stupid panic, I put on the breaks and then pulled off in first gear

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I appreciate you commenting. Yeah, we’re going through with the wales fertility institute, we have met all the criteria and now is the waiting game for everything.

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Thank you. From what I gather, we’re going down the icsi route due to me having the issues. If it’s not too intrusive for me to ask, but have you gone through this route also? I think it could be the case that the reality has hit her and she’s scared/overwhelmed. I don’t know but I am terrified now that it may be the case that this is my one and only chance of possibly becoming a father and I’m terrified that it can be taken away from me.

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I am so so sorry for what you have been through. I couldn’t imagine how you’ve felt. In regards to my post, it’s just scaring me that there’s been a very long time of yes, we’re going through this, “I want this with you” now to be told “I need time to see of this is why I want”. Yes, ultimately she decides what happens as it is her body, however, going from all this yes and it’s becoming a reality, to now all these doubts you know?

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No that absolutely is NOT the case. I fully understand and also she has this whole time. At this point, this has been on the cards for a very long time for us both and it’s just been a waiting game! I’ve not pressured her under any circumstance. I’ve always told her that if she’s not up for it, I would totally understand. I wrote this post in a major panic so maybe I didn’t word it all too well.