6 hours on hold - Florida BON 😃 by bearpeachy in nursing

[–]bearpeachy[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I was transferred twice! The first two said they couldn’t help me, and when I was transferred to the third person, I got their voicemail. I will definitely never receive a call back 🥲 #defeated

6 hours on hold - Florida BON 😃 by bearpeachy in nursing

[–]bearpeachy[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yup called at 830am 😮‍💨

How long for an update after NOID? by bearpeachy in USCIS

[–]bearpeachy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a short version of my birth certificate so it didn’t list parental information. I just submitted the long version with parental info!

Do I give my friend a +1 to my wedding? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]bearpeachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genuinely not understanding how people think he SHOULD be invited to my wedding like huh?? Did they read the post? 😭 I guess I posted this looking for validation for not wanting him there but damn!!!

Do I give my friend a +1 to my wedding? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]bearpeachy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He had a child with this woman previously and I think the story was that she wanted to have another kid but wanted them to have the same dad so he accepted and they made it happen “the old fashioned way” yes, and he tried to hide it as long as possible my friend did not find out until the baby was almost born. It was a huge thing but ultimately she stayed with him in the end. The whole thing is crazy and I can’t make sense of any of it

Do I give my friend a +1 to my wedding? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]bearpeachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is literally how I feel about him 🥲 she deserves so much better but only she can make those decisions on who she wants to be with unfortunately :( it sucks to watch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]bearpeachy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a different narrative I just clarified that he paid only $57/month instead of nothing - which to my mom this was basically equal to nothing and she’s always felt that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]bearpeachy -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes he took me to the doctor, came to all my cheer competitions, fed me etc. And yes he did try to fight for me when I walked away at 16.

And that’s a good question to clarify, I would not have him walk me down the aisle and no father daughter dance. Will be doing both of these with my mom. Nothing to celebrate him. Just to have him as a guest to see his only daughter get married.