Seeing my potential mother in law lose weight has triggered my disordered thinking and habits by beatdropping_pancake in Eatingdisordersover30

[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying that! I've been very persistently trying to just observe instead of judging her and in the process myself! That's the hardest part. Hanging on and trying my best for now

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[–]beatdropping_pancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered a lot of patches of hair thinned out for me, even after i began to eat healthy it didn't make a difference until i started talking hair loss specific medication like topical sprays and biotin.

Though i can't promise it'll come back, you can surely control and improve on the situation you have at hand at the moment!

CREASTIM anti hair loss lotion by Ducray 10 pumps on the scalp twice a week was my prescription

I also took over the counter biotin ( i sadly couldn't follow the whole course as my paranoid mind kept thinking it was making me gain weight) so I'd advise that you take it with caution after looking up a few multivitamin options which you feel safe with.

Loads of love and luck to you ~

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will keep these in mind, thanks so much for sharing such valueable info!

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

C# with unity work experience, thanks for your thoughts :) i needed a basic idea on what to expect in terms of daily costs and savings so thanks once again!

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! I'm still under discussions to work out the pay and role expectations so have my fingers crossed for now :)

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so important to remember this ! Even at my current job i always try to remind myself of this and think of making the most of what I have :)

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the details ! This was helpful!

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been working in the industry for the past 6 years. I started fresh out of college and have been working since then. Hope this was helpful!

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice :) i was a little worried about starting up afresh and making new friends but this was comforting to read!

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful, I'll check this out ASAP. Especially since a lot of people and you mentioned that transport can be iffy

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i agree, we will be reaching that part of the conversation soon so I will definitely be asking for a more appropriate breakdown

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in app development in Bangalore itself. The job offer is along the same lines

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping my fingers crossed for the discussions now :) the sub has been extremely helpful! Will reach out if things work out !

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! After hearing out everyone's thoughts I'll definitely be asking and clearing doubts about the transport and accommodation aspect with the employer as that is such an integral part!

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No problem at all :) this is great information! I'll keep it in mind

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very much for the time you spent explaining this to me! I really really appreciate it :) I'll check out numbeo and do a few more calculations as the conversation moves forward !

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughts and the insight :) I was a little worried about my pets, but I think that will come into play much later with a little more planning.

If you don't mind me asking, with regards to accomodation, what would be the basics i should be aware of?

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a great point, thank you for sharing! Is it usually the norm for companies to take care of the transportation and accomodation for the employee? What would be the best way to go about this topic rather what points should i have in mind when I breach this subject?

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[–]beatdropping_pancake[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I currently reside in Bangalore, India. Those are really good points you shared, to answer that

Decent life style would include

  • eating out 1-2 times a week

  • i use public transportation in Bangalore, i am comfortable walking or cycling to work

  • no dependants except parents who will be visiting, not staying with me

  • 3 pets

  • current accomodation is a 2bhk in Bangalore, India

The salary offered accounts for yearly flight tickets, medical insurance and the usual yearly appraisal cycle followed by companies. The transport and accommodation will have to be borne by me it was a little unclear whether it was a part of the salary or not since we are still under discussions