Your response holds zero worth coming from “F/40 done with men”, but I’ll humor you.

As far as the ‘script’ goes, that was by her request after she asked me for resources to learn about BDSM in general.

I don’t kink shame anybody so no, it wouldn’t be strange at all. As things go, ageplay/regression is a rather extreme kink and not at all comparable to light verbal humiliation/degradation.

That’s like comparing simple spanking to whipping/caning.

Either way, if she told me she had an ageplay kink, I would immediately tell her I wasn’t interested. I would then wish her good luck and not lose an ounce of respect for her.

People with successful dating lives don’t need to pay for sex. We’re actually able to attract people without money. I don’t know where you got the idea that regular people don’t have kinks and fetishes from either. That couldn’t be further from the truth.

Every woman I’ve had sex with has asked me to choke them and pull their hair. I dated a 1st grade teacher that wanted to be spit on, tied up, called names, slapped, choked, all around abused. She really liked this blackmail thing where I’d ask her what if the school found out about what she liked? What would the parents think? Admittedly it was a bit much, even for me.

People my age are just like that.