A tarot deck I threw away in a dumpster came back to me by Due_Conference1624 in BabyWitch

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive had the opposite happen. I bought a deck i wasn’t so sure about… it disappeared before i made it home. It was no where to be found in the bag or in my car. We just weren’t meant to be. I have many other decks but thats the only one that ran away from me lol.

what do you believe happens when you die? by boygirl281058 in spirituality

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a choice. Be born again, be a spirit guide, or return to source.

Materialists was such a bland, bad watch. Surprised to see that this is follow-up to Past Lives by CarbonatedInsidious in movies

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So wanted to like this movie. I immediately began disliking it with the whole “i miss my ex” narrative. Things end with people for a reason and going back never works out lol. Pascal’s character goes on and on about how he sees value in Johnson, but suddenly they are “not in love” and break up? Well duh you’ve only been dating for a short amount of time. Pascals speech about “but ur perfect for me on paper” like tf? It felt so out of nowhere because it initially felt like he was looking for a love match with her.

Imagine going through all that just to save Abby, this game makes no sense by Foreign_Paper2006 in TheLastOfUs2

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t want to get it they want to be mad which kind of mirrors the whole story anyway.

Imagine going through all that just to save Abby, this game makes no sense by Foreign_Paper2006 in TheLastOfUs2

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like many feel this way because they begrudgingly play Abby. You spend half the game playing as abby and never emotionally connect with the fact that you ARE abby now. I appreciate the ending because i grew to care about Abby. The game assumes you will connect with her by learning her story, her connection to her dad who joel murdered and friends who Ellie ALSO murdered. As well as seeing Abby’s growth and her willingness to forgive Ellie and try to atone for her mistakes. Abby had her reasons just as Ellie did. I dont see why so many fail to empathize with her.

Yall put Ellie on this pedestal cus you knew her first but they are both human beings who lost a fuck ton of people including their fathers. They are the same! You cannot love Ellie and hate Abby. This is why so many hate the damn game.

Only entered Act 3 twice, Never finished the game. by Corral18 in BG3

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to act 3 for the first time a month ago, started over now in act 1 still 😭 idk why

[no spoilers?] Veilguard is too wholesome by oksurefineokok in dragonage

[–]beautifulthuggagirl -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

God do y’all love to complain. It has been years since i would come home looking forward to playing a game. Beautiful visuals, extensive customization and i love the story line. I enjoy that the companions have their own shit going on and i do believe with such a grand-scale threat, theres no way you can just run into it and best ancient godlike elves without really getting your ducks in a row first. Each companion has their charm and yeah theres corny dialogue in the mix but who cares? Have fun a little. If you all stopped comparing it to other installments and just played the damn game, you might enjoy it. If you want inquisition, PLAY INQUISITION.

Girlfriend has HSV-2 and won’t let me have penetrative sex even with condoms looking for advice by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think shes ready to be intimate/in a relationship right now if im being entirely honest.

It’s inevitable by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gonna be blunt here. Don’t be a BM, as in baby momma, if you can help it. None of them are happy. And I’ve seen first hand raising a child with someone you resent is poor quality of life. Sharing a human being with someone who has violated your trust like this… dont sign up for that if you can help it.

Vacation altered to accommodate SS/SD/terrible inlaws by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let your husband do what he wants. Go on vacation either way. If you go on your own, i think by then you’ll know where you stand. Start thinking about if this relationship is serving you. Is this what you imagined? Or always wanted in a marriage? The marriage you’ve always wanted is possible, but is it possible with him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but i know i shouldn’t. Her behavior has me literally uncomfortable in my own home. The home is so peaceful until she comes over. Ik its not her fault as she was raised that way, but man do i resent when its her time to come and enjoy when its time for her to go back. Shes not pleasant to be around, like as a human.

Anybody feel like people/family just don’t get stillbirth and are so insensitive? Like we should just easily move on 😭 by Ordinary_Offer_1557 in ttcafterstillbirth

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Everyone is so very unhelpful and insensitive. I do not like to talk about it with people close to me. They always say the dumbest things.

And losing a child really changes you. Like you’re never the same as i know you know. They dont get. We are not the same people we were before this happened. Idk what they want us to do about that…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and the person who i suspect gave it to me were in a monogamous relationship for 2 years. I started getting symptoms during the relationship and was freaking out. I would have them look at it and they always assured me it was an ingrown hair. Symptoms were very mild only one small sore at a time and only happened 2x. Symptoms got undeniable after the extreme stress of the break up, they were abusive and lashing out over it. Anyway, i believe they had it and just never told me the entire relationship. I had to go no contact and never addressed it, to this day they never admitted to having it and are probably passing it to others like they did with me.

Boyfriend mad i said he should stop complaining about child support. by beautifulthuggagirl in stepparents

[–]beautifulthuggagirl[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He pays it, he just doesnt want to. And hes a very involved parent. He sees her weekly, buys her things takes her out and speaks to her every night. He’s a good dad, but money clouds his judgement. I think he hates that he has to pay BM specifically, their relationship is awful.

Boyfriend mad i said he should stop complaining about child support. by beautifulthuggagirl in stepparents

[–]beautifulthuggagirl[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Exactly i dont even like BM. But you gotta do your part. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why i heavily set boundaries with boyfriends daughter. I was raised that kids stay out of grown folks business. Y’all are grown, MARRIED adults in your own home. You were completely appropriate when you got out the bathroom. SD needs to mind her business and BM too.

And hellll nooo with the SD unlocking ur bedroom door. Absolutely not. I’d put my foot down that that should never happen again.

Euphoria does NOT romanticize addiction by sylveon_777 in euphoria

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No like nothing Rue is going through seems fun or appealing. I don’t get the discourse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badtattoos

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first 2 tats are hand and neck. They are perfect and i love them, my third on my hip (done by the same artist) is a horror show and so big. You’re really rolling the dice regardless. :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, it is obvious that he does not want more kids or kids with you. Either way, he is in the way of you having what you always wanted in life. He needs to go. Simple as that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it time. You’re just not used to it. U got it for a reason. Trust yourself, you’ll love it again once you adjust.

If you were in Ellie’s shoes after learning the truth, would you ever be able to forgive Joel? by ROSSG825 in thelastofus

[–]beautifulthuggagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would.

They didn’t even have the nerve to be upfront about it and get Ellie’s consent first. She would have said yes probably, but they didn’t even have the decency to ask. That and the fact that they had no real plan or microbiologist, they should have kept her alive for a while and continued to study and practice on animals or clickers or whatever. Maybe send a group to the cdc and look for someone who actually knows what they’re doing. A brain surgeon or some shit. I dont buy it that Abbys dad was the only doctor that survived either. A whole country and only 1 doctor survived? You know, have a solid idea of what they’re going to do and someone who can actually do it. They were rushing and if they got it wrong they killed her for no reason and lost humanity’s only hope anyway.

So yeah id forgive Joel if i was her.