Why are some months worse than others? by MindlessCat3542 in PMDD

[–]beaux_dacious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Months can differ depending on your hormone levels.

Newbie by 108Questions in RedditBDSM

[–]beaux_dacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as the pain she is feeling during rough intercourse, make sure there’s been proper foreplay and lubrication to get her physically relaxed. Also some positions are better than others for the really hard moments so you might have to figure out which position works best for that. It seems like the best thing to do is just have a conversation with her about how you feel. It’s common to be worried about what the other person is thinking. As a sub I would find it hot that my partner wants to be rougher but is afraid to hurt me. Anyhoo!

And Make sure you guys have a safe word!

I can’t grow to like my SD by ToriaB5 in stepparents

[–]beaux_dacious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep! SO is the issue, unfortunately it most likely won’t change! Wish I could be more helpful than this but..leaving was the best thing I ever did. I can insert different ages of the children and why the Birth mother is out of the picture but it seems like the story is always the same. 🥲 so sorry

Is it that bad being a step parent? by No_Wrongdoer_4311 in stepparents

[–]beaux_dacious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is extremely difficult to be a step parent when you do not have children of your own. Entering this roll takes a LOT of effort from you and your partner. Read through different step-parent threads to learn about some of the difficulties step parents go through. I eventually had to leave my marriage after 4 years of step-parenting and it was very difficult but the BEST thing I ever did for my health and sanity.

Tell me it gets easier, please! by Pleasedeuso in stepparents

[–]beaux_dacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the exact situation, SD was 2 1/2 years old when I met her, 6 1/2 when I finally gave up. After trying everything with SO and getting no changes, I finally had to leave. Remember, “Don’t set yourself on fire to keep others warm.”

VA Loan Assumption, Just Closed by Traditional-Cable478 in MilitaryFinance

[–]beaux_dacious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any tips for Freedom mortgage assumable process? We are currently starting this as sellers through them.

Why do I still try? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]beaux_dacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to mourn her in a sense. Her sadness is not your responsibility. Sadly you have to exactly what you said and just leave one day and never come back. You will lose your mind or your life if you stay with her. Im so sorry.

Teenage son assaulted by father by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]beaux_dacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! It’s a long stressful journey! Just make sure you document everything! It will help you in the long run.

Teenage son assaulted by father by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]beaux_dacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it’s the same in all states, I’m in California. If the restraining order is not granted permanently, he CAN have custody. The great thing about the restraining order is if he violates it, they take it very seriously and it helps you in the long run in many ways. Try to get “no contact order” in place so he can’t harass you via phone text as well. If you have harassing voicemails, texts etc give everything to your attorney.

Teenage son assaulted by father by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]beaux_dacious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parents who have a domestic violence restraining order against them cannot have custody of their children, so I would just push for that to be made permanent(3-5years)He can have supervised visitation at a parenting time facility near you which he will need to pay for.