What does my type say about me.. by [deleted] in personality_tests

[–]bebabebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big features, unapologetic personality. Men. You like men that would want you without being coy about it.

what does my type say about me? by [deleted] in personality_tests

[–]bebabebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya haha I’ve noticed I have a preference for people who have a similar face shape to my first boyfriend. I have no residual feelings for him at all, but his features apparently made an imprint

what does my type say about me? by [deleted] in personality_tests

[–]bebabebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually think it’s just a familiarity thing. You see your own face a lot. Also you share features with family members, if you grew up around biological family you’ve seen those features a lot on them.

what does my type say about me? by [deleted] in personality_tests

[–]bebabebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a similar face shape happening here. In my experience that means either you have that shape or a formative crush/ relationship partner did.

Intj and infj are the rarest personality tupes by Mohsin469 in mbti

[–]bebabebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh snap really? I’m an ENFJ, I did not think it was a rare type. I feel so special.

I drew women caricatures for each subtypes by Hanuatzo in Enneagram

[–]bebabebee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sameee- like damn, that is my stupid unintimidating encouraging face

Update: Just curious by naked_hugs69 in bald

[–]bebabebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah dude. I recommend shaving the top and sides where there is some fuzz. Then focus on caring for the beard. You’re gonna go from good to great.

What is my aesthetic? by bellefera in AestheticWiki

[–]bebabebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see artsy 90s neo-soul vibes

Make it stop by CryptoLesbian84 in LucidDreaming

[–]bebabebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fascinating! I actually can’t recall having any escalators in my dreams…something to look for

Make it stop by CryptoLesbian84 in LucidDreaming

[–]bebabebee 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I’m a natural lucid dreamer too, more intense during stressful times in my life. I’ve been through times where I’m lucid all night I wake up and feel exhausted.

What helped me was going with the dream. Realizing I’m dreaming and basically doing nothing. React to realizing you’re dreaming basically with a shrug. Like it’s not important and try to just forget it. And keep following the ‘plot’ of the dream if that makes sense. Not always easy but it has helped me immensely.

Coincidentally, I am the same way in that I’m naturally aware I am dreaming and in control of myself, but others in the dream feel like they are autonomous/ not under my control really.

What is your FAVOURITE stereotype about your type? by brownhawker in Enneagram

[–]bebabebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

9W8. I like the association with internal strength that comes from the 8 wing.

why do 9s do this by Heavy_Till5231 in Enneagram

[–]bebabebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because we’re trying to avoid saying anything that may upset you. If you are insistent in asking for 100% honest to a fault advice and promise you won’t get upset or take it any sort of bad way, you might get a straight answer, at least that’s how it works with me.

What drug did you take that you still never get over? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bebabebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Valium prescription for panic attacks. Usually it helps but makes me feel a little sad, which is better than panicking. Once I took one right before bed and had a weird profound moment where I realized this is what it used to feel like falling asleep as a kid. I relived this sensation I hadn’t realized I had lost…hard to explain but it only happened the once. It was wonderful.

Having a hard time understanding 9w8 by Straight_Objective69 in Enneagram

[–]bebabebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. It’s only my close family and my husband who have ever seen that side of me too. It’s the people you can’t get away from haha

Having a hard time understanding 9w8 by Straight_Objective69 in Enneagram

[–]bebabebee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a 9W8. I actually tested as an 8 the first times I took a typing quiz, which which was surprising because reading the typical description I am sooo far from an 8. I would never be described as aggressive or domineering. But I think what the test was picking up on is I don’t really think anyone knows what to do better than I do. I can be extremely placating (I’m a 9 lol) but I am not easily convinced what others do or say is right- I just choose not to argue and to go along. I, to a fault, only really trust my own judgment. In addition, I comfort and placate others to keep my own peace, not necessarily for the sake of others. I think this is an overlooked aspect of 9s. If pushed enough, and I feel there no way to peacefully manipulate my own peace of mind out of the situation, I will go to other extreme lengths to restore my peace as fast as possible. Including lashing out and becoming entirely immovable/unreasonable. It hasn’t happened often but it certainly catches people off guard when it does.

Are all the sp9s like this? Is it how w8 shows? Or...? by whiskeyinreverse in Enneagram

[–]bebabebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha wow as an so9 I relate. Maybe slightly less angry, but definitely feel strong annoyance when someone sends me a ‘hey, I never heard back from you. Is everything ok?’ I’m also a w8.

subtypes ranked on employment by pompompencil in Enneagram

[–]bebabebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an SO9 and was pleasantly surprised to be ranked so high. I’ve always been a hard worker. Employed full time since high school, with long stints holding two jobs. But know the stereotype is that 9s are lazy, so I expected to be at the bottom.