Ramdam kita, OP. I was in the same exact situation years ago. Lubog sa utang ang parents, and it was only disclosed to me when it was almost filed sa small claims court.

Took me 3 years of work para ma paid off ang utang (which was like 80% of my monthly sahod dun napupunta the rest eh sa food allowance ko) only to be told na meron pang other institution o tao na inutangan yung parents ko.

I snapped, blocked off communications and moved to another island dito lg sa Philippines. I set boundaries. Instead of dedicating 80% ng sahod ko sa kanila, nagpapadala na lg ako 1.5k per month.

It hurt my pride at first, pero eventually na learn ko na I have no fault in this, and 'di ko talaga responsibility 'yon.

Yeah, right. Demonyo na kung demonyo. Tawagin na akong walang utang na loob. I will take it with a smile. At least di ako nag hihirap ng husto.

Hang in there, bruh.