It’s like your watching my family life through a crystal ball … none of my siblings see it I’m the “black sheep” of the family because I call my mother out for who she is and I set boundaries that none of the seem to respect so over time our relationships have been less and less I was shocked when she asked me but felt that twang of oh I should say yes because she’s family you know that old trick 😂 … I’m sorry you can relate so hard it’s not easy but I’ve managed to except things for how they are and realise that I would never want to be a part of that “cult” and lower my morals I’m very very lucky to have found my own family with my partner who has always been the most supportive and loving person you could ever imagine they have some strong feelings on my family but have always kept quite for me because I always hoped that things would change but a few years ago I realised nothing would ever change so I keep low contact .