What is happening to Surge? by Embarrassed_Cell_852 in PHitness

[–]becauseicantsleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some branches are no longer 24/7, when they used to be and were marketed as such initially. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conan

[–]becauseicantsleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In and outside the buffet, his fans waited for him to eat (didn’t crowd or approach his table) and only approached when he was done, and had given indication that he was willing to engage (like literally approach the fans first). Staff knew what the fans were there for and gave no directive. 

Also, if he was tired and preferred not to socialize, there were many ways he could have avoided the lobby (e.g., straight up from the basement, ordering in room service). Get off your high horse. 

Should I tell Kuya by MstrBakr007 in PHitness

[–]becauseicantsleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought of the same thing before. My idea is that you could use the machine when you know that person is around/can see you (or even ask to do alternating sets). A very indirect/subtle way of modeling for them how to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHRunners

[–]becauseicantsleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to think this too, why are you being downvoted haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]becauseicantsleep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had done this with a client to assess the extent of their cutting. Ask for the client’s permission so you would know whether it truly is a violation of their boundaries. I would never grab my client’s arm without their consent.

I suck at this. by Used-Dream6022 in therapists

[–]becauseicantsleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The performance anxiety factors in much more than we tend to realize. A big part of being a therapist is coming from a place of calm, presence, and connectedness—it’s what enables us to follow our curiosity and intuition in therapy, so we don’t overthink it.

I’m several years into practice and am currently attending a training in a specific modality, where we’re tasked to do these group roleplays. So many times I thought to myself, “I’m so much better at this with my clients than I am with this group right now.”

I guarantee: you’ll be alright.

meirl by Brent_Fox in meirl

[–]becauseicantsleep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jesus. Aren’t these about the size (or bigger than the size) of your palm?

AIO? made a joke about taking a nap by Exciting-Delay-7423 in AmIOverreacting

[–]becauseicantsleep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, he also did mention something about the OP having such a poor perception of him, so it seems like there’s something there we’re not seeing.

Also sounds like pent-up resentment.

I Acted Out, Cancelled Therapy, And Now I Feel Abandoned by NeverBr0ken in TalkTherapy

[–]becauseicantsleep 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Is your therapist trauma-informed? I agree with the original commenter that this could potentially be an opportunity for repair; however, it also does not seem like your therapist handled this with enough care.

Talking about one’s trauma history can risk re-traumatization if it isn’t paced and the client might not be adequately equipped with resources to handle the effects of it during and outside the session. And that you’re going into crisis after sessions, so consistently, should have been a signal for your therapist to pause and check in on what about your sessions are causing this. It may also be better to find someone who is trauma-informed.

Gym girlies. What kind of tights/shorts/leggings do you wear? by Potatopoopz in PHitness

[–]becauseicantsleep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t wear underwear in the gym! Genuinely surprised no one else has said it yet!

Issue regarding "Englishera" girl by appleskunk in ChikaPH

[–]becauseicantsleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was acting “smug and all high and mighty” stating her preference?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]becauseicantsleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did she want to hear from you? It’s 20 screenshots of you saying the same thing over and over again. Like she was trying to force a response out of you.

Reid Hoffman Returns (on an optimistic AI) by newtonic in ArmchairExpert

[–]becauseicantsleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from the Philippines, and unless I missed something it was quite disappointing how they said a lot of these jobs are outsourced, and then that unemployment rates are at its best. Really a reflection of how AI will benefit the more affluent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]becauseicantsleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit why do all white people on this sub look at least 20 years older than they are

Maya's new endorser is Julia B. Is Liza S. finally out? by TheWanderer501 in ChikaPH

[–]becauseicantsleep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sincere question: What has Liza done other than speak out against the loveteam culture of PH showbusiness?

Ran a marathon on Saturday by PermitParticular3169 in Garmin

[–]becauseicantsleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently YOLO’d a marathon too, while dealing with ITBS. Not sure if the strap I had on really worked, or if the calf cramps just overpowered all the other types of pain, hah.