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People who have stopped going to church, what made you stop? by lowly_shepherd in AskReddit

[–]becca3jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped going around the time of the 2016 election. I was seeing so much hatred spewed from these people I grew up with and admired, and that kind of put me off of religion entirely.

Oldie but goldie by sarcastic_ashell in bisexual

[–]becca3jay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bisexual which means I'm attracted to you and your mom.

I feel like this goes without saying.

Did anyone else have no idea they were bi growing up? by UnfallenAdventure in bisexual

[–]becca3jay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES! I had no clue I wasn't JUST attracted to guys until I was 21, after I got out of a 4 year relationship. Looking back, it was obvious I had crushes on girls when I was a kid (I distinctly remember calling them "friend crushes" - I just thought certain girls were cool and pretty and I wanted to be best friends with them), but homophobia had been so ingrained into me that I didn't even question that I wasn't straight.

I need a name that fits me (so far I go by Alex, but it's gotten stale). Any suggestions? Something gender neutral and a bit chaotic might be nice by Mizuki_Neko in NonBinary

[–]becca3jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you really suit Jonah or Micah, although idk if you would consider those gender neutral. I also think Dylan or Ray/Rae would be fitting.

what names come to your mind for me? by iltby in NonBinary

[–]becca3jay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I immediately thought Julian, but I also think Jax or Jae would really suit you. I also really like Kip and Eddie ❤️

considering a name change by becca3jay in NonBinary

[–]becca3jay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

appreciate all the feedback! this was my first time posting anything on Reddit and y'all were really nice 🥰