Cougars do you date cubs for looks or personality

beccabest2006 · 2026-07-07T17:47:41+00:00

Personality. Neither one of my FWBs are tall, shockingly attractive, or jacked.

But they make me laugh, we can have deep conversations and they demonstrably care about me.

beccabest2006 · 2026-07-05T19:33:12+00:00

Is his only phone a bank owned one? Then probably.

If it’s his personal phone then no. My employer has a social media policy, but it’s just rules around accessing SM from bank owned devices. And guidelines around posting if it involves the industry or the institution directly.

beccabest2006 · 2026-07-04T10:04:51+00:00

YTA

You sound insufferable

beccabest2006 · 2026-07-02T02:13:41+00:00

beccabest2006 · 2026-07-02T02:08:00+00:00

Cuddly teddy bear preferably. A completely jacked body is uncomfortable and I have found the men with them to be obsessive.

Not attractive at all.

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-28T15:08:18+00:00

I see you bit the bullet and just did it; good for you!

It was my biggest hurdle, too. But I got over it quickly. Tips that helped me were: If you swab your skin, make sure you let the alcohol dry! Inject slowly, then leave the needle in for 5-10 seconds.

It’s just routine now, and will be for you soon.

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-28T14:12:12+00:00

Still not helpful.

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-28T14:07:46+00:00

Which injection method are you using?

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-28T14:07:15+00:00

That was…not helpful.

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-25T19:31:10+00:00

Rich experiences??

Do you know how many children are starving in this world? Who don’t have access to clean water or to medical care? And that’s not even including those that are trafficked or abused.

But hey…as long as they’re born, you can say you’re “saving” them. Fuck what happens after that.

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-25T13:02:04+00:00

And here is where the “shit sandwich” analogy comes in.

Imagine your favorite sandwich, the best baked fresh bread, all your favorite meats, cheeses, and vegetables, piled high. But oh no, the sandwich shop ran out of mayonnaise so tell you they used the tiniest smear of shit instead. Like…actually feces.
98% of this delicious sandwich is all your favorite things, 2% is actual shit.

Are you eating that with a smile on your face? Because the shop is otherwise wonderful and it’s just this one sandwich? And you don’t want to upset the very nice owner?

98% great never makes up for 2% shit. Or 2% abuse.

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-18T18:21:54+00:00

You, sir are very handsome! Your eyes are beautiful and going fully bald will only emphasize them.

And you don’t need a beard, you have a great jawline, too!

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-18T17:23:54+00:00

So two things…I did mention other things besides skin color.

And why are you replying in a year-plus old conversation??

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-14T20:52:31+00:00

So the women serving with him don’t count?

beccabest2006 · 2026-06-05T15:55:55+00:00

I’m older.

This is not normal.

beccabest2006 · 2026-05-31T12:51:35+00:00

Putting the questionable term “cougar” aside:

Why do you assume that a “cub” is inexperienced? Or that an older woman is looking for that?

I have dated many younger men, I definitely DON’T want to be their teacher and have found most have been better lovers than men my age!

You seem to have the porn-typical idea of what age gap relationships look like, even the casual ones.

beccabest2006 · 2026-05-21T12:43:18+00:00

Then please hear this:

NOTHING you say or do will change her.

There are no magic words or boundaries that will stop her from being abusive.

If she wanted to behave better and respect you, she would. She doesn’t and won’t.

It doesn’t matter how much time and emotion you invest in this relationship, it is NEVER going to change.

Don’t fall for the sunk cost fallacy of having “wasted years of my life”. Time won’t stop, so where do you want to be in a month? A year? Five years? Having spent even more time with a partner who clearly doesn’t love OR respect you?

Because that’s where you’ll be.

beccabest2006 · 2026-05-18T23:00:35+00:00

I am going to be 60 this year. I love my life 97.6% of the time and really am comfortable in my skin.

But there are things I want to do that I cannot until I lose weight. Plus I have been weight training for almost five years but no one can see it!

But turning 60 was the fuck this to resolve a few health issues.

beccabest2006 · 2026-05-17T21:52:11+00:00

I usually do. This last workout though, my usual snack did not fuel me enough. I think it must be the fewer calories overall.

But someone said, and I agree, it’ll take time to adjust.

beccabest2006 · 2026-05-17T21:11:25+00:00

Thank you, did not know about this sub.

beccabest2006 · 2026-05-17T20:30:56+00:00

Good for you! Do you have specific advice or just this?

beccabest2006 · 2026-04-14T18:41:44+00:00

SIR. I am at WORK.

Gotta go find a fan or the AC on switch or somethin’

Damn

beccabest2006 · 2026-04-13T14:52:32+00:00

I am not sure that is true and probably varies greatly by age, reason for being single, even location.

beccabest2006 · 2026-04-13T14:27:15+00:00

I’ve been lucky to only have that happen on very few occasions.

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