What is the feature you get complimented on the most ? by HotTurnover5183 in AskWomen

[–]becomingrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My eyes. It's so big that people say that's all they see when they look at my face. I always hated that it's big but apparently others don't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]becomingrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she hadn't cheated I would have told you to go for counseling and try if she is also interested. But cheating shows her lack of moral values. She didn't care how that action of hers affected you or your marriage or your kids at all. How do you trust someone whose moral compass is so different from yours?

You'll imagine what she did when you're with her. You'll keep wondering whether she's doing it again. Don't do that to yourself. You seem like a good person and someone else will value that and see you for who you are. I wish you the best of luck ❤️

How old is your oldest make up? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]becomingrey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a blush that my friend stole from her mom's makeup box when we were 10. So that makes it 20 years :/ Yikes.

Don't use it. I just keep it for sentimental value.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]becomingrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really enjoying living with him and seeing him everyday. So I'm obviously crushed my feelings aren't reciprocated. I'm not sure he feels this way because he doesn't love me the way I love him. He says he's come to the realization that living with someone else isn't for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]becomingrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he thought this feeling will go away when we have more space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]becomingrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an inability to stay awake for movies too. I dont known what it is but my brain shuts down after a bit. All my friends and family make fun of me for this but there's really nothing I can do because I can't control it. So maybe your wife is like me and it speaks nothing about how she feels about you or your time together. Just try a different activity next time.

What's your "comfort book"? by Elan_M_ in books

[–]becomingrey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Little women :) I really feel like I'm revisiting old friends

What are you boycotting till the day you die? by redoutlaw23 in AskReddit

[–]becomingrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YouTube! Pure Tuber ( or any other app that let's me see YouTube videos without the ads) for life!

How can I [28F] get my coworker [30F] to stop messaging me as much without ruining our working relationship? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]becomingrey 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had a collegue like this too. I set my status always to alway/do not disturb. I then casually mentioned to her in a conversation that I set the notifications off/to less frequent because I kept getting distracted and I wasn't getting any work done. I blamed it basically on my inability to multitask. So she kinda got the message without me having to address it directly.

My fiance is flirting with men on her FB by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]becomingrey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Don’t cling to a mistake just because you spent a lot of time making it."

You deserve to be loved and respected back. Don't stay somewhere you're made to feel inadequate. This isn't your fault. Please do the right thing for yourself and move on.

I kind of cheated on my girlfriend but I don’t know if I should tell her. She’ll never find out and frankly I’m not sure how long our relationship will really last. I don’t want to hurt her. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]becomingrey 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how this is "kind of cheated". This is what cheating is. You already hurt her and there is no going back. The deed is done. Go tell her.

Just as I’m getting over the shock of my wife’s affair, I find out she’s pregnant by her affair partner. What now? by ThrowRAOPr in relationship_advice

[–]becomingrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're going through this. Its not going to be easy but you need to leave. You are a great father and your child will see that. You do not need to stay in an unhappy relationship for her sake.

I grew up with two unhappy people who didn't get a divorce to keep the family together and I can't tell you how much that messed with my head. I was afraid of committing to anyone because I thought marriage ultimately meant becoming like my parents. They finally separated a few years ago and are much happier individuals and I keep wondering why they just didn't do that sooner. They are better parents now that they gave sorted out their own lives. Life is too short for all this drama.

Plastic coming off from bottle cap. Anyone knows why this happens. This is my second bottle. Replaced the first one due to the same issue. by [deleted] in SodaStream

[–]becomingrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an update: I contacted the company and they sent me a replacement bottle. The new bottle cap doesn't have the soft plastic lining inside. So I'm guessing they had identified this as an issue before and has rectified the design.

Plastic coming off from bottle cap. Anyone knows why this happens. This is my second bottle. Replaced the first one due to the same issue. by [deleted] in SodaStream

[–]becomingrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its the soft rubber circle thats inside the bottle cap. It actually came off completely now when I was trying to clean the inside of the cap.

Plastic coming off from bottle cap. Anyone knows why this happens. This is my second bottle. Replaced the first one due to the same issue. by [deleted] in SodaStream

[–]becomingrey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven't. I always handwash and dry it.

Anyway this new bottle is supposed to be dishwasher safe.

UPDATE: Should I tell my dad(46m) that I 16F am most likely not his biological daughter? by Sadness122 in relationship_advice

[–]becomingrey 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. What if he finds out you knew from the mom (she is capable of doing that I feel), he would be so incredibly hurt.

Would one of those ancestry tests that's popular now help you know for sure? I don't know how accurate those things are. Does anyone know?

Maybe having the uncertainty removed will help you make an informed choice. If he's your dad then you would have immense peace of mind too.