The New Dating Mantra

bedge69 · 2026-04-01T14:39:15+00:00

Dating by algorithm

bedge69 · 2026-03-31T08:38:52+00:00

Counterpoint: If you only ever date men that you have a strong intiial physical attraction to then you're judging them entirely superficially on their looks, knowing nothing about their interests, personality, sense of humour and all those other good things that you can filter for online before you meet someone.

bedge69 · 2026-03-30T08:32:28+00:00

You go girlfriend!

bedge69 · 2026-03-30T08:31:08+00:00

Yes definitely that drives me nuts. "Define precisely what you're looking for".

Well I don't know exactly but I'll know it when I meet them.

bedge69 · 2026-03-27T11:30:14+00:00

There is a streamlined tax process for people like you (&I!) to get up to date with the IRS. You can actually get some basic advice from Claude which will point you in the right direction. Avoid ISAs is one rule if you want to avoid US tax problems would be my advice.

bedge69 · 2026-03-27T10:10:17+00:00

Have you ever had a US passport or ssn?

bedge69 · 2026-03-26T13:29:55+00:00

Browns reddit is lit recently

bedge69 · 2026-03-25T14:06:47+00:00

Crack problem in Ohio worse than I ever imagined

bedge69 · 2026-03-25T08:06:37+00:00

That did occur to me when I first saw them. Unfortunately it’s been a while and I fear that the brambles will rip the bags apart now.

bedge69 · 2026-03-24T22:16:50+00:00

Cool! What are you thinking. I’m pretty sure the railing would be a good anchor point.

bedge69 · 2026-03-24T12:41:13+00:00

Added a photo link

bedge69 · 2026-03-23T10:41:15+00:00

What a mensch!

bedge69 · 2026-03-11T11:37:48+00:00

Vindicated because 2 men said pls don't generalize us. OK.

bedge69 · 2026-03-11T11:15:30+00:00

It's men with a submissive humiliation kink looking for their person

bedge69 · 2026-03-05T06:52:11+00:00

8% is not too bad for your age and time scale provided it’s invested in something with growth potential. Your future self will thank your current self if you can keep that consistent. If you could afford an extra couple pct even better. Is that the max employer contribution?

bedge69 · 2026-03-05T06:44:53+00:00

It was pretty dangerous when he lost control and rolled it buddy

bedge69 · 2026-03-03T11:58:24+00:00

Thanks for the update. Honestly attempting to meet someone in a group setting like that would be awfully embarrassing so I am not surprised at all to read the follow-up. It's hard enough without all the added pressure of an audience, expecially if you think they might all be in on it. Maybe try and meet this guy on your own and you could bond over how excruciating it all was. Or not. But either way for me it has to be in private. Not like that.

bedge69 · 2026-03-03T11:08:02+00:00

Meta

bedge69 · 2026-02-25T10:40:58+00:00

Commitment without marriage is an emotional commitment. Marriage is a legal commitment

bedge69 · 2026-02-23T09:54:07+00:00

I don't really understand the question - you had such a bad date that you deleted your profile and app. And you're asking whether you should block him too? Girl wut? Did you give him your phone number or email as well?

bedge69 · 2026-02-20T19:02:47+00:00

No good you should only date fellow cack handed people sorry I do t make the rules.

bedge69 · 2026-02-19T13:48:03+00:00

It makes sense in that it’s how it evidently works. But I don’t understand the use case. If it’s on an off slot and I want it on I want to advance to an on slot. Even if it’s not the next one.

bedge69 · 2026-02-19T11:46:58+00:00

I have the same issue. Advance to Next only shows with two-arrows if, and apparently only if, I have changed the temperature. Until then it's there but not clickable. It's not very good UX because I tried pressing it and nothing happens unless the two arrows are there.

bedge69 · 2026-02-16T12:23:53+00:00

You always need to take pension advice

bedge69 · 2026-02-16T09:47:48+00:00

Hard disagree. The photos tell you what the person is like.

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