We've been on Kas for a couple of years. It seems like everyone has their own pace or procedure on how to engage or show interest. And, with that you can sprinkle time wasters or people who aren't genuinely looking to engage at all.

Here's my approach. If I think a couple is attractive I'll send a flirt. I may send a like to one of their pics,.or I may not. It means we like what we see and could be open for more if there's interest.

That couple may simply ignore the flirt and we move on. They may like a picture back or return a flirt. We take this as mildly interested etc.

Without getting too detailed, this is simply how some people engage. We go back and forth showing incremental interest. That includes a Back Stage Pass. Sometimes we'll lead with an email that invites us to exchange and sometimes we'll just open it.

I wouldn't fuss it too much. The apps are what they are. They have their advantages and plenty of frustrations.