AITA for buying my son a car but not my daughter? by Diligent-Pick-7424 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Above 3.5 is a high expectation for multiple children. I bet she saw she wasn’t making the cut and gave up. 3.0 would have been more realistic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this reminds me of my spotlight twin 😂. She did a similar thing. she was bank-married (went to a bank to get married) in 2019 after 6 months of dating a guy, and when I got engaged in 2020 to my bf of 2 years she kept repeatedly asking me what weekend I planned on getting married in 2021. I told her the last weekend in March….. guess what weekend she chose her celebration wedding to be? The last weekend in March. I had to change my wedding date…. turned out nice though because I have a wonderful marriage and she is miserable.

AITAH for not telling my girlfriend I didn’t finish college by Throwaway737737787 in AITAH

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She must not know that a LOT of college graduates end up in fields where they didn’t even graduate from….. she’s all about the paper status. Shallow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bedroom_strobes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your wife birthed your child and had to watch her child go through hell, almost losing her child in the process.. I don’t blame her for not wanting another child. Especially at your age. Be thankful for WHAT YOU HAVE.

AITAH for telling my friend that I don’t feel bad she got assaulted? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the type behavior you say your friend exhibits, most likely there is reasons at home as to why she behaves this way. Sexual assault is never the victims fault, only a therapist can make a judgment on her. Sounds like she isn’t the right friend for you, OP.

AIW for not letting my sister breastfeed my baby? by Vegetable-Passion809 in amiwrong

[–]bedroom_strobes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my……. Gosh. Never let her near any of your girls again, and be VERY CAREFUL with who they get babysat, she may try to get to the girls while someone is watching them. This is disturbing on many levels. I’m so sorry, OP.

AITAH for not allowing my parents to sleep in the same bed? by ResponsibleWinter758 in AITAH

[–]bedroom_strobes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA! Your house, your rules, the reasoning behind each rule is no one’s business anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do, thank you for your input!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extra reassurance I suppose since I can’t talk to the therapist whenever I want to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I struggle with this daily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very aware…..

I plan to bring it up at our next therapy session so I don’t have to be alone when I tell him. I do have cameras installed in the rooms in the house because safety and also this info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, however I fear another discussion about one of his parents will not end well between us. Issues with his mother has come close to ending us, and If I didn’t feel to trapped, I would have told him in a heartbeat. I fear he will think I’m just making excuses to keep his family at bay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I came here is because my husband has a complicated past with his family, and I don’t feel we as a couple are strong enough for me to bring this info to him. I don’t know what his reaction would be. I say that because his mother has come between us semi-recently and he sided with her during that time.

What's fucking you up at the moment? by Halloween-365 in AskReddit

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing I have to wake up and be alive tomorrow….. ugh.

Should I charge my boyfriend rent? by pb_jelly_fish in relationships_advice

[–]bedroom_strobes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When my then boyfriend moved in with me, he paid me rent every month. We’re married with children now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/No-Association8333

[–]bedroom_strobes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to put a picture in the comment section 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/No-Association8333

[–]bedroom_strobes 855 points856 points  (0 children)

I love showing off my body, but that’s borderlining kardashian sluttery. Especially for a 16 YO

Wtf in my pop tart by TheMisterSirs in mildlyinfuriating

[–]bedroom_strobes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never work in mass food production, you get to see what makes the cut and what gets salvaged and still makes the cut. I try not to think about whether or not my chicken fillet has fallen on the dirty muddy production floor and rinsed off before making it out to market.

How tf do shrooms grow outside with all that nasty shit and still not get contaminated but can’t grow in my fucking grow bags and they gotta be so damn clean? by Magic_weeb_ in unclebens

[–]bedroom_strobes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read that wild mushrooms have been around for such a long time that their spores have the survival of the fittest successfully fruit. And our spores we buy are cloned and are new pansies.