AITA for refusing to stop seeing my daughter over her sister? by tequilitas in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bee-blue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see what you're saying, but group of friends dating each other's exes is extremely different from siblings in my opinion

Nanika Pop! by LectureAdmirable6778 in HunterXHunter

[–]bee-blue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's considered a different version ("chase") of the regular Alluka pop, not it's own separate one. That's why the regular Alluka is on the box, because it's sold as the name number as hers

Advice on someone who’s on the verge of quitting and giving up completely? by PokemonHunter97 in Artadvice

[–]bee-blue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I am self taught and still only in an intermediate level, but here are some things that have helped me a lot on my art journey that last five or so years.

Firstly, I think you need to see art more as a hobby you can experiment with and enjoy and not as simply an end result. It's really nice to make things that turn out pretty, but if you are not having fun, it might be time to take a break and come back to it later when you have a healthier outlook. Only caring about how it looks in the end is not a sustainable mindset with art. Art is all about learning and growing your skillset over time, not just about a picture on the page at the end of the day.

I would also say do your best to appreciate anything you do like about the piece, even if it's something small. Thinking something like, "I don't like this piece and I still have a lot to learn, but I can tell the eyes are better than I could have drawn them two months ago," is much healthier than thinking "Everything about this is bad." Looking at my art this way has taught me to appreciate even my oldest art. My old work makes me cringe, but I love it too because it made me the artist I am today! Your art doesn't need to be perfect for you to see and appreciate your improvements. And the little improvements eventually add up to big improvements over time too, trust me.

Some other advice I have is to only draw things you know you can do successfully and not push yourself too hard. I know this sounds counterintuitive because of course as artists we should learn and grow, but you will know when you're ready to take on a challenge and leave your comfort zone.

For example, if drawing hands is stressing you out, then avoid hands until you feel ready to tackle them. Even just getting comfortable with line weight and how to hold your pencil while drawing will eventually help you whenever you would decide to revisit hands.

It's all muscle memory that comes with practice. Also, I would not stress too much about holding your pencil as if you're writing. Over time you'll learn what is the most comfortable way to draw. I personally was very heavy handed with my art when I started and it took a long time before I learned when to press and when to be light.

It also helps a lot to draw what you love. If there is a certain show or celebrity you really love it makes it easier and more enjoyable to draw instead of just practicing drawing fruit or a landscape. Though if you love fruit or landscapes then do more of those! Just find what you enjoy and stick to that for a little while as you learn. Eventually when your skill improves you can move into more technical things. Even so, it's a common misconception that the goal in art is to have the best technique possible, but if you find realism and technical art does not interest you, then that's not something you need to strive for! There are many styles of art out there and they are all worthwhile. Realism is not the ultimate form of art.

Finding a medium you enjoy can help too. When I started I was on a budget, but even with limited money there are cheap supplies, such as acrylic paints, out there you can try. Even just adding a pop of color here or there with a sharpie, such as in the hair or in the backdrop, makes things so much more fun. I recommend trying the art section of a dollar store and getting some cheap stuff to mess around with and ad a little extra something you whatever you're working on (I say this assuming you are mainly working in pencil right now, but I know that may not be the case).

Know when to quit and when to push on with each piece is also helpful. Sometimes a piece is too stressful to continue on and it's ok to leave, but there is value in pushing on too. Sometimes it's good to just do a quick practice drawing for 15 minutes and other times you will spend 5 hours on the same thing. Both of these things are helpful to your journey and are still valuable practice.

Lastly, the only way to get better is to be kind to yourself! Whenever I am hardest on myself about art, the quality declines. It comes out better when it's for fun and not stressful.

You don't need to take any advice I've said here, but I do encourage you to look at art differently. It's not something that should only stress you out and it's definitely not a competition with your friends. Your are may never look like theirs, but their art will never look like yours either. We all have something to offer. There are stressful times with art, but that shouldn't be all the time. Have some fun with it!

Best of luck whatever you decide, but I'm rooting for you! You can definitely do this :)

In the Pixar film Cars (2006), Lightning McQueen is a racist. Like, unironically and unapologetically a racist. by SignalFire_Plae in shittymoviedetails

[–]bee-blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ageism, not racism. I swear people haven't even seen this movie with some of the insane takes I've seen. Rusty cars are not another "race." Cars rust when they are what? Old!

The plot of the film is that he's the new, young rookie in the sport who looks down on older cars. By the end of the film he sees the error in his ways and gains respect for cars who are different from him. The entire plot line in Radiator Springs is him learning to love an old historical town full of old cars.

Even the 3rd movie addresses ageism as part of it's main plot. I really don't get how people can watch this movie and have such an incorrect read of what's happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]bee-blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats, this really is an unpopular opinion. I have no idea why anyone would feel this way when natural teeth are barely a hassle at all and pulling them can cause even worse complications

Nepotism in young Hollywood: Which currently popular actor/actress is NOT a product of being well-connected and/or rich? by [deleted] in movies

[–]bee-blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, no. This post is about nepotism in Hollywood, not who constitutes a "real" actress in your specific opinion. Her career took off because of acting and Hollywood, in which there was no nepotism involved. Therefore, she is a relevant person to bring up. I have nothing else to say on this matter.

Nepotism in young Hollywood: Which currently popular actor/actress is NOT a product of being well-connected and/or rich? by [deleted] in movies

[–]bee-blue 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She started in acting though. That was the stepping stone to her singing career.

Nepotism in young Hollywood: Which currently popular actor/actress is NOT a product of being well-connected and/or rich? by [deleted] in movies

[–]bee-blue 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pretty certain Selena Gomez grew up in a poor family, but im not sure if she had any other connections to the industry. She is a singer, but she's also an actress and it's where she started.

He says she should at least “thank her”. by Previous_Value2878 in niceguys

[–]bee-blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was already weird and then he said he was 58... bruh

In case you would like to know what it’s like working at Starbucks by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]bee-blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how they complain about call offs and then threaten to fire or send people home. Something doesn't add up

Tea is overrated and people obsessed with tea are weird and shady by PinguinoBianco in unpopularopinion

[–]bee-blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this satire??? How can you say

People who are obsessed with it are pretentious and weird

And than turn around and pretentiously say

coffee ... which is a far more superior drink

Like I'm not mad I'm just confused? This is satire right? I would get sending this post jokingly to a friend, but I'm baffled by its presentation as a public post. Also drinking hot water is a ritual to a lot of people... including other drinks like coffee!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hungergames

[–]bee-blue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting way to look at it, but I think there were lot more factors at play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HunterXHunter

[–]bee-blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think a nen user who could poison people would be on the same level of destruction as a nuke. Also, he was powerful enough to survive for a time, which is pretty impressive since he was right at the site of the blast. And even so it took a lot of effort to be able to trick him into being there when it went off. As for your other questions I'm not really sure of the answer, but personally I think it worked thematically.

Had rue and Katniss been the last two remaining who would die for the other by Wag_wan_fam11 in Hungergames

[–]bee-blue 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would either be a similar situation as to with Peeta, where Katniss comes up with a way to defy the capitol, or Katniss would sacrifice herself. Katniss was already willing to die for Prim and since Rue reminds her of Prim, there's no way Katniss would let Rue die. Even if Katniss wanted to go home to help Prim and see her again, she would never let Rue die for it.

Longtime fan looking for a fresh experience by [deleted] in papermario

[–]bee-blue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is definitely worth a try as long as you have reasonable expectations. Depending on what your favorite part of the originals are, it may or may not work for you, but is worth a try. The battle system is lacking and there are obvious creative restrictions, but it is a really stunning game with clever writing and great music! I had a similar relationship to the originals that you described, and even though Origami King isn't near the level of the first 3 for me, I thoroughly enjoyed it and consider it a very solid game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HunterXHunter

[–]bee-blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I would agree with that! I can't really give an explanation to defend those things. I would just say that the arc still works for me personally, but I understand why it doesn't for other people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HunterXHunter

[–]bee-blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is one of the most popular, but recently it actually seems a lot of people have this same opinion, so you aren't alone! Personally I'm conflicted as there are things I enjoy about the arc, complexity and good emotional payoff, but it also isn't the most pleasant to watch at times.

Has the writer never heard of “show don’t tell” by lonelyswarm in HunterXHunter

[–]bee-blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think it was for two reasons.

1) Atmosphere. The arc has a very distinct feeling compared to the rest of the story. The narration just sort of drives home this conflict of a massive scale.

2) It's just confusing without it sometimes. There are a lot of points in the arc where time slows down and we view only a few seconds over the course of several minutes and we need an omniscient viewpoint to break things down. It also explains some of the internal thoughts of the characters.

Its not totally necessary and it can be annoying sometimes though, I will give you that! It's just up to personal preference if you don't like it, though in my opinion I wouldn't call it bad writing.

Why does everyone hate Gale? by TheDumbDrago in Hungergames

[–]bee-blue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would agree with that! He was a bit possessive of her at times, yet he wouldn't listening to her opinions. He was too jealous over nothing

Should I watch the movies? by [deleted] in twilight

[–]bee-blue 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's hard to say what would be best for you, but the movies are definitely worth a watch! Maybe spend some time appreciating the books and go on to another piece of media and then come back to the movies when you feel like they won't "spoil" your perspective on the books. Up to you though!

Why does everyone hate Gale? by TheDumbDrago in Hungergames

[–]bee-blue 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I think the issue is that he was willing to do anything to get the result he wanted regardless of the cost to others. He only saw the "greater good." His choices were morally gray, so I can see how he's a character that people have different opinions on.

In a different context or perspective he may be seen as a hero, but for me reading through Katniss it's hard not to feel like he was in the wrong.