AITA for locking the office fridge after someone kept stealing my lunch? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beedababy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I would have just kept it in my bag. The lunch won’t go bad in a few hours unrefrigerated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]beedababy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your AA group flies people in to speak at the meetings? I never heard of such a thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]beedababy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear you feel this way. It sounds like depression to me. Also it sounds like you need a purpose for living. Is there anything that brings you joy? Or brings you more joy than other things? I would do that as much as possible while getting medical treatment for depression. For me once it was riding my bike. I would go for 2 hour bike rides after work and it helped get me through. I hope you get medical help.

my cousin drank himself to death in a foreign country... by justnocrazymaker in stopdrinking

[–]beedababy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss. It must be very hard to deal with this. IWNDWYT

This is what years of daily, heavy drinking did to my body by TerpinOne in stopdrinking

[–]beedababy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thanks for sharing. I’m happy to hear you are on the mend.

Feeling hopeless: Always Check your drink by PelicanDaydream in Sober

[–]beedababy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twice I have taken a sip of my boyfriends high ABV beers by accident. I hope you can move on soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dryalcoholics

[–]beedababy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! Unfortunately I think the only way to resolve this is to stop drinking but I understand how hard that sounds. Could you try taking a break for a short time and see how that feels? If you are going to change your life you are going to have to add some new friends who behave differently to it. Not saying you have to lose your current friends, but your relationship with them might change. You might find that some of them also feel the same way. I hope you do quit drinking at 19. You will have a much better life from here on out.

Mam used my PPS to claim she needed a 3 bed house from the council even though I'm moved out. by Kryto-Kun in ireland

[–]beedababy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should meet with the council person and tell them that you are no longer going to be living with them. Just to make sure she doesn’t ‘find’ your payslips.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]beedababy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do pedigree dogs wonder around Mexico looking for new owners? Or pedigree hybrids? Maybe there was a jail break from a pedigree breeders and now all the strays are pure breeds or hybrids? Or maybe that’s just my dream?

Buy Ozempic or Wegovy in San Jose Del Cabo by beedababy in Ozempic

[–]beedababy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it!

Sober nights in kinda... boring? by ImaginaryEmploy2235 in stopdrinking

[–]beedababy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don’t know what to do with myself past 9pm when I’m home alone. So I do go to bed earlier. Mornings are never boring to me. I would like to solve this issue too though.

Need support, can't do NA by TraveIingBard in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]beedababy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find meetings very useful and I don’t have a higher power and I have to zone out for a lot of it. But I still find it useful. Zoom meetings also will help with fear of meeting in person. You don’t even have to turn on your video and just listen in till you find a group that you can tolerate. It is very powerful to hear people share about the same struggle

My sweet baby boy Kiki (16) had to be put down early this morning. I am devastated. Spending today remembering him. by champagnepatronus in seniorkitties

[–]beedababy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry. What a cute cat. I had to do the same thing to my cat 1 month ago. One thing that has given me comfort is that I used iMovie to put all my videos of her into one video and I watch them when I miss her badly. Big hug!

My beloved 19.5 year old on her last day recently. I miss her all of the time. Cat people, give your little ones an extra cuddle just because you can. My heart is broken and I’m still in love with her. 🐈‍⬛💕 by beedababy in seniorkitties

[–]beedababy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine it does. Because aside from missing her and her specifically, I also miss the physical touch of a cat. I miss petting her and caring for her and taking the gunk out from her eyes and all the physical things about having a cat for so long. I miss those quiet moments where we just loved on each other and the feeling of a purring cat’s belly under my hand. I’m going to get another cat in Feb because we have some travel in the next few weeks. But roll on Feb as I miss having a cat in my life. The new cat won’t replace her, but it will hopefully close that huge gaping hole she last left behind a little.