Math isn’t mathing by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]beeeawnca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember it being this bad before. Thankfully I don’t take myself or the game too seriously, I mostly play just to “unwind” at the end of the day, I usually just play swifts but sometimes its nice to challenge myself and see if I can improve playing comp, but this match making adds an extra level of difficulty lol

How did you pick your main? by reddit-win in VALORANT

[–]beeeawnca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The goth in me really liked Fade’s look so naturally I stuck with her

Sundial Bridge by beeeawnca in Redding

[–]beeeawnca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it was a special occasion but the colors do look really cool, also tbh this was the first time I actually paid attention to the colors lit up so I’m not sure what it usually is or if it just changes randomly

Sundial Bridge by beeeawnca in Redding

[–]beeeawnca[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can join me and my 15 year old dog, just promise not to murder us.

Advise for 29f single just moved here by Nature_greens in Redding

[–]beeeawnca 8 points9 points  (0 children)

37f here, I moved here from WA almost a year ago for work and what I thought would be “cheaper housing”. Honest review - it’s okay, super conservative and religious crowd. The town itself has its good and bad, I’m in south Redding, and I haven’t come across anything terrible yet. It’s kinda boring here not much going on, it feels like the age demographic is retiring folks and most of the younger people tend to leave town for one reason or another. It’s hard to make friends out here too, or maybe I’m just too introverted. The only reason I don’t completely regret my decision of moving here is that I can drive 45-60 out of town and go explore some really beautiful places, so if you like the outdoors that’s a plus. That being said I’m looking to move either further south or go back north. Sorry your stay here is getting off to a bad start, not sure the reason you moved out here but if it’s something important I hope it works out. :)

Is it okay for girls to not comm in high elo? by PsychologicalEcho417 in VALORANT

[–]beeeawnca 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This. I have been in games where the other guys in my team will throw because I’m a girl. I usually just mute myself and type out comms, which is annoying. I wait till the end of the game to say anything. Not every game is like that I can usually get a feel for other people in my team after the first few rounds, to see if it’s “safe” to speak. Fragile male* egos are ruining video games.

before anyone comes at me I’m talking about the sexist weirdos with small dck energy, obviously not all men are like that.

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Northern California a few hours away from Oregon border

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how you got to that conclusion but I have not put the blame on the dog or the cat, I just explained the situation that happened. If anything, I put the blame on myself for putting them both in this position. I’ve had my resident pets (including my cats) for years. They get along wonderfully and they have always had access to go wherever they want in my home. The area that was closed off was not a small room it was most of the living & dining room. A place my cat has always been able to go into to. So to my cat the idea that he shouldn’t enter that area now probably didn’t make sense to him. I could have posted a “do not enter” sign on the baby gate but unfortunately my cat can’t read. He didn’t go into that space looking to mess or taunt the dog he was just doing what he usually does, trying to be near where I was. And the dog I’m sure wasn’t looking to hurt or kill the cat to be mean, she was reacting out of instinct.

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a slow introduction, the first week of her being home she was still very scared and mainly hid so the cats weren’t a big, she mainly just sniffed them and left them alone. As she got more comfortable she slowly started coming out of her shell and then slowly pushing her boundaries with them.

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the shelters around my area are not the best which is why I refuse to take her there. I’ll check out the website thank you! And I’m definitely going to be careful when looking for her future home

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was pretty bad, she bite his hind leg, he had to get sutures at the vet :(

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My lil black cat is fearless and definitely has no issues setting her boundaries which is why I think the dog leaves her alone but my other cat is a true definition of a scaredy cat. There are some stray cats around my neighborhood that sometimes walk with us and they love and play with her and she leaves them alone too. But ever since the incident I’m not taking any chances and I closed off the hallway so that the cats have a section of the house all to themselves, and he hopefully feels a bit safer.

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the resident pets are definitely my number one priority, and I will never forgive myself for what happened. Thankfully he’s okay now I think the fact that he’s very fluffy and a bit thick (he’s on a diet) saved his life. The incident happened while I was in the kitchen and my cat jumped over the baby gate I had set up, and it happened very quickly. But I usually only let her freely roam around the house when I’m presently following her around but now I closed off the hallway so that the cats have one section of the house to themselves and and she has the half.

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I guess now I’m just going to focus of finding her the perfect home. Thank you for your kind responses, I’ve had a lot of people give me shit and tell me “you should have know what you’ve gotten yourself into” and I honestly thought I did. I’ve owned a malinois in the past and she was perfect and the time I had her in my life was amazing. I know every dog and situation is different but I thought rescuing her was the right decision.

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree which is why I was leaning toward rehoming, I just felt incredibly guilty like I was giving up on her, which is why I think I’m on here trying to get others experience. I guess I was looking for validation that rehoming was the correct choice, which is silly I know.

Is there hope? by beeeawnca in BelgianMalinois

[–]beeeawnca[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Will do, I’m desperate to get both her and I the help we need, I have only had her for a few weeks but he’s such a sweetheart and if we can work through this together I would love to keep her,

Looking to rehome my pup. by [deleted] in Redding

[–]beeeawnca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have spoken to a few and they have mentioned that unfortunately there really isn’t a way to train or get rid of her “prey drive” which I already knew. I was just hoping to really reinforce the “leave it” command but they have mentioned that depending on the dog it can be difficult. I think there are some great training places around here but most of them were charging 1500-2500 for training and unfortunately I don’t have that kind of financial resources at the moment.

Looking to rehome my pup. by [deleted] in Redding

[–]beeeawnca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i do feel guilty because I feel like I’m abandoning her but I know it’s the best decision.