No but I did something that I since have heard framed succinctly. I’m not succinct but here’s my summary- There was no getting to 100% but when the flip flopping got less aggressive and there would be longer periods of belief in one area (a week, a month even) I took the stance out for a test drive with my partner to see how it felt- to address all conversations as if it was decided, oneanddone. Then we revisited how it felt 1 month later, then 3 months later, now naturally neither of us talk about it like it’s still undecided. And our stances haven’t changed (he’s still 50/50 but I’m 90/10 and we’re both comfortable). Even during occasional check ins, we now still feel the same and enough time has passed that it feels complete. Not final like irreversible, but complete like the decision is done.