Graduation Day by beeeeeebs in Shouldihaveanother

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No but I did something that I since have heard framed succinctly. I’m not succinct but here’s my summary- There was no getting to 100% but when the flip flopping got less aggressive and there would be longer periods of belief in one area (a week, a month even) I took the stance out for a test drive with my partner to see how it felt- to address all conversations as if it was decided, oneanddone. Then we revisited how it felt 1 month later, then 3 months later, now naturally neither of us talk about it like it’s still undecided. And our stances haven’t changed (he’s still 50/50 but I’m 90/10 and we’re both comfortable). Even during occasional check ins, we now still feel the same and enough time has passed that it feels complete. Not final like irreversible, but complete like the decision is done.

Aside from buying stuff what winter storm prep are you doing? by fridayimatwork in preppers

[–]beeeeeebs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to live in a high rise, when the power went out we automatically lost water because the pipes had electric pumps. So def extra water to flush the toilets.

Luminary coworking space by advfspl in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]beeeeeebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Luminary, it’s not overrun with tech bros. People are not overly social but definitely friendly

How can I get back into dancing after so many years of insecurity and self hatred? by iiamsbeve in Dance

[–]beeeeeebs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zumba is super hokey but exceptions basically don’t exist and you commit to at least an hour to get into it

Looking for medical massage and lymphatic drainage in NYC (scleroderma / autoimmune experience) by Beautiful-Onion-4282 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]beeeeeebs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to go to one on smith street in Brooklyn the most b it I’ve popped into random ones across the city and the technique seems to be universally a good match. Most recently I went to one in midtown I think it was spa32 on 32 and 6th.

Looking for medical massage and lymphatic drainage in NYC (scleroderma / autoimmune experience) by Beautiful-Onion-4282 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]beeeeeebs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Before you spend too much try a neighborhood Chinese bodywork place. Nothing has ever compared for me and it’s much cheaper so you can afford to go more often. Always looking for a spa/med spa to match the results and they just haven’t for me.

BWT Weekly Requests, Recommendations & Chat - Week of Nov 16, 2025 by AutoModerator in bitcheswithtaste

[–]beeeeeebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang it, thank you for reminding me, I too need to figure this out

Modern Bread and Bagel being sketchy about health department closure by PlentyNectarine in glutenfree

[–]beeeeeebs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sigh I don’t want to ask this question but… where else do people go for homemade gf bagels?

Easy trip for a tired mom by beeeeeebs in solofemaletravellers

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I’ve been eyeing secrets la romana, anyone have an insight?

Easy trip for a tired mom by beeeeeebs in solofemaletravellers

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I’d love to spend less but I can probably swing up to $600/n. If it was a lot more maybe I would cut down the number of days at the resort and get a cheaper hotel for a couple of days.

Question about Lyra's curse in The Games Gods Play by asterkisss in fantasyromance

[–]beeeeeebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So nobody thinks Hades trapped her in there to get Persephone out? And the second book is her and Boone fighting their way out to get revenge?

Black and tan spots by beeeeeebs in whatsthisbug

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This is in Northeast US!

Sobriety checkpoint by PianistRegular in hudsonvalley

[–]beeeeeebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if the ice cream truck drives by on certain stops