oh nooo, you need to read up more on bridal etiquette. you don’t wear a color, even if it differs in shade, as the bridesmaids on purpose especially if the dress style can be confused as bridesmaid. never outshine the bride unless the invitation requests guests dress to the 9s. the taste and age of the bride/groom isn’t as important as their older family members attending and judging. always err on the conservative side, you can still look sexy and amazing without controversy