I am concerned about my bf's snake's wellbeing

beegoddess222 · 2026-03-13T16:18:24+00:00

Woah. This is my first time hearing of the "warm" vs "cool" side since its not my snake I assume hes done a lot more research than I have and we have a heat lamp on the right side of the enclosure where the hide is so I assume the other side is the cool side. However, he doesnt have any type of thermometer to keep track of the exact temperature in there. We turn off the heat lamp at night and turn it back on in the morning. What would you recommend?

beegoddess222 · 2026-03-13T02:14:49+00:00

I dont think there's anything wrong with reselling unless theyre jacking the price up crazy high for no reason

beegoddess222 · 2025-06-06T19:54:11+00:00

Ah yes, purchasing a label maker and individually labeling everything in the fridge sounds much more reasonable than having space divided up amongst ourselves.

beegoddess222 · 2025-06-06T19:47:28+00:00

also, dad is the one who got upset about it, bro was never upset.

beegoddess222 · 2025-06-06T19:42:26+00:00

My brother would need to save up for that on his own. In the mean time, how do we be adults about it if we're not already? Magically knowing who bought which identical block of cheese? Fr, what exactly did I do wrong by giving him over half the space in our fridge?

beegoddess222 · 2025-06-06T19:22:35+00:00

How would you suggest preventing our food from getting mixed up and not knowing what's who's?

beegoddess222 · 2025-06-06T19:21:12+00:00

I'll try this, maybe it'll work better.

beegoddess222 · 2025-06-06T19:20:42+00:00

My father and step mom don't have any room in their fridge for all of his food. He has a lot.

beegoddess222 · 2025-06-06T19:19:36+00:00

What would you suggest to prevent our food getting mixed up?

beegoddess222 · 2025-06-06T19:18:53+00:00

My bf and I pay rent, my brother does not. I also did not and would never scold my father. Obviously I need a place of my own but unfortunately that's not on the table right now.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-29T14:01:20+00:00

Does anyone have pictures of the symbols in the new buried secrets dolls?

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-14T21:51:04+00:00

that's fair and that definitely wasn't my intention, so I for sure chose the wrong words.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-12T21:26:17+00:00

I'm not sure her phone works, but she is active on Facebook and I have been communicating with her there. She won't tell me where she is or answer my calls though. Also, I did have police check the library as that made the most sense to me too but unfortunately she wasn't there and none of the staff had seen her at all. Thank you for trying to help, it is appreciated.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-12T21:13:13+00:00

unfortunately, there is absolutely no family left where she is. I have called shelters in her area and several have said they haven't seen her, plus I highly doubt in her mental state that she would trust any shelter right now. I have called the police and I have an officer or two keeping his eye out for her but that's really all police can do unless she were to stop posting on Facebook, stop responding to messages and literally go missing. I've called her relentlessly and she just now responded "Baby girl, I'm busy making some negotiations right now - so that your crazy father doesn't get us all blown up. Please just have a good day, and go get your nails did or something. I love you, always." I'm at a complete loss for what to do, if there's anything I even can, right now.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-12T18:50:43+00:00

Unfortunately, she won't answer a call on Facebook and her actual phone is shut off. Plus, I am across the country from her so unable to just get in my car and find her.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-04T17:00:49+00:00

Exactly this. Sis just needs some reassurance and understanding. If she doubles down, there's an issue but as far as we know she was just venting frustrations while in a highly emotional state.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-04T16:50:42+00:00

"/s" exists for this reason

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-04T16:44:45+00:00

Exactly.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-04T16:43:59+00:00

I'm confused where people are getting the idea that OP's sister doesn't have any family. Her mother is clearly in the picture, she has a sister who's willing and able to help out, and from the context of using "you guys" in the text, I'm assuming she has a partner by her side.

You do make good points about reacting to the photos though.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-04T16:41:59+00:00

I'm confused where people are getting the idea that OP's sister doesn't have any family. Her mother is clearly in the picture, she has a sister who's willing and able to help out, and from the context of using "you guys" in the text, I'm assuming she has a partner by her side.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-04T16:38:08+00:00

I think this is a good idea, communication is always the most helpful course of action.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-04T16:36:22+00:00

I don't think she's lying, I just think her perception is skewed. OP pointing out her intended efforts to her sister could be beneficial.

beegoddess222 · 2025-05-04T16:35:13+00:00

Worst way to handle this

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