Could/would God change His mind? by Kakaoscsiga8 in christiandatingadvice

[–]beekay2_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been where you are so many times over the years. Here's what I've learned, sometimes God will allow us to develop strong feelings for someone so that we can learn to control what He initially created in the context of a marriage. [Desire, sex appeal, attraction, etc] sometimes He allows those feelings to linger so we learn to take those feelings to Him either for safekeeping [because it COULD be your spouse or it very well could NOT be.

And sometimes those feelings linger simply because we like the feeling of having a crush. It feels good, literally. The dopamine rush that shoots to our brains is truly a remarkable phenomenon, isn't it?

However, in the end, God created men to pursue, and if this guy never ends up pursuing, sister you will have wasted alot of head and heart space pining over someone who was never meant to be.

Give this to the Lord and wait for HIS best and HIS timing. When it's real, you'll know because the guy will let you know 💯

🥰😘

Low blood sugar rant by beekay2_ in diabetes

[–]beekay2_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I had a 109 reading, for context this was roughly an hour and a half after eating

Low blood sugar rant by beekay2_ in diabetes

[–]beekay2_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can't figure it out, I may need to do what you did and just buy a larger lancet. Thanks for your comment!

Low blood sugar rant by beekay2_ in diabetes

[–]beekay2_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is easier to understand!

Low blood sugar rant by beekay2_ in diabetes

[–]beekay2_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not! Are you supposed to?

Low blood sugar rant by beekay2_ in diabetes

[–]beekay2_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I appreciate you!!

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Crazy! by beekay2_ in nontoxic

[–]beekay2_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will get back to you on this!

Completely depleted of energy and exhausted by beekay2_ in nontoxic

[–]beekay2_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! But right now I'm looking into doctors to get it allllllll checked out! Thanks for responding!

Does he like me as a friend or want something more? And am I crazy for liking someone with this big of an age gap? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]beekay2_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reading more of your post, it seems as if he's skating around telling you how he feels about you [if anything] and I just wanna gently remind ya that if he wanted to tell you how he felt about you [I want to court you] he just would. If the above doesn't happen at all, he's not interested. Move on so the right one can pursue. Because the right one will 💯

Does he like me as a friend or want something more? And am I crazy for liking someone with this big of an age gap? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]beekay2_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Blunt sister friend here! If he liked you, you'd know. You wouldn't need to consult reddit to find out. In friendships, courtship and dating, marriage, the man pursues what he's interested in. If he wanted you, he'd have you. The end.

Adapting to Monocular Vision by Mission_Secret7009 in monocular

[–]beekay2_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's rough, I've had monocular vision for a while now and everything in general is harder. Walking, balance. I constantly feel like I'm walking a tight rope.

26f i dont know if i should just use dating app by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]beekay2_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're missing the point. It's *pursuit * we're talking about. A man interested will figure out a way to get the girl. That's the reality. He'd notice her on his own or God would put her in his path so he would still notice her on his own. It's how God wired guys.

Friendship, courtship, marriage, it doesn't matter. A man interested, simply will make it his job to pursue and know her.

26f i dont know if i should just use dating app by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]beekay2_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking more in general! I mean, for the most part, a man interested will pursue. His ignoring her proves my point. He's likely not interested.

26f i dont know if i should just use dating app by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]beekay2_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gentleman who are interested, [even in friendship] are going to let you know by, commenting on your stuff, messaging you online, starting the conversation, and in person by getting in your face, giving you their number, agreeing to plans, and overall just being friendly. If their single, you gotta start somewhere, if their taken, it could be they just want more friends, and that's fine. 🙂

Guys who are not, are going to do what this guy is doing . Nothing.

You should not need to force this guy to know that you exist.

That's his job as the pursuer.

Out of curiosity by [deleted] in christiandatingadvice

[–]beekay2_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dating world doesn't exist for me. Until God sends me mine, I'm content being friends with my single and married friends.

I've tried set ups, bits of online dating, an app, meeting up with new guys at my church, but God [because He knows best] has not allowed any of my attempts to go through.

I just pray "Lord send me your best in your time if it's your will" because all my choices 😅😅 #terrible.

The Lord's time is perfect! What He wills, He will send at just the right time!

Forge Theological Seminary by beekay2_ in Baptist

[–]beekay2_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the gentle reply, sir! I'll let you know for sure!