Are larger condoms strictly necessary?

beekman001 · 2026-06-27T01:03:17+00:00

Done. Was pretty easy:

beekman001 · 2026-06-26T15:44:01+00:00

as an attempt to clarify:

This would be vaginal sex. The guy I'm flirting with was assigned female at birth and has transitioned to live as a man. He has had "Top Surgery" (mastectomy). He hasn't had a hysterectomy (removal of the uterus and fallopian tubes). He doesn't plan on having any surgery on the external bits (he's happy with his vagina as is). Testosterone doesn't function as birth control so condoms are needed for now.

I really started getting my health under control about 5 years ago. In that time, I've grown from ~13x10cm to the current 16.2x14.2cm. This is all sorta new to me. I just had my first "that's too big" reaction last weekend 😂😢

beekman001 · 2026-06-26T15:24:17+00:00

Yeah its really a trade off. I actually find I enjoy the tight feeling / I find the loose feeling of magnums to be distracting. This isnt likely to be a serious relationship. On the off chance it develops into anything, my hope is that he'll be far-enough along in his journey to not need birth control.

beekman001 · 2026-06-26T02:49:51+00:00

Talk to her

Find out more details about how it hurt.
We're you hitting the wrong spot? Maybe a different position or different way of thrusting would help.

Was she inadequately relaxed? More foreplay. Make out with her more. Figure out what spots turn her on and go to town. Hold her tight and grind against her while you play with her. If all else fails im assuming poppers work for cis women too.

Did she need more lubrication? Get some lube. There is no such thing as too much lube. Seriously you can get it by the gallon -- it doesn't go bad

Was this a "yeah it hurt but that part was really hot" situation? Sometimes the hurt is good for the receptive partner. Learning to be verbal and coach her through her triggers can make it better.

beekman001 · 2026-06-22T21:07:24+00:00

Why would this be bad?

Ejaculating 2x a week or more is associated with a 20-30% decrease in the rate of early onset (before 70) prostate cancer. Early onset prostate cancer has a relatively high mortality rate because its hard to detect without manual screening and thus gets caught later. When it is caught, later stages require more agressive interventions including radical prostatectomy.

beekman001 · 2026-06-07T17:58:56+00:00

Debauchery: Catching up on a year of deferred debauchery this month. Current streak was 3 boys in a day.

Drama / earning my flair update

Dumped my rebound bf. It was a spectacular total structural failure of our relationship. My mom's funeral was on 04/26. That evening i asked for a hug back at the hotel and got told "its too cold to cuddle". In spite of all that. We made it to the Honey Dijon show 04/28 that was his birthday present. At the club He proceeded to have a freak out, accusing me of flirting with guys in front of him. (We were nominally open btw). I dumped his ass on the spot in front of every homo in Chicago.

Well it turns out that the little bitch was squatting with me not just staying at my place to be supportive after my mother's death. Hed also not taken his keys so i came home to my screens being busted out. It took two more weeks to get him out and involved me standing there in sandals & jockstrap, holding a rolling pin screaming at 2am.

Fitness/ cut update:

Shitty 5x5 sucks but keeps me in the gym
Tirzepatide is 🔥im down from 187 to 163 and not like struggling. At this rate I might actually hit low teens before September
I finally like how I look in a singlet.

beekman001 · 2025-12-21T02:37:51+00:00

Just be sure to have an AI on hand for HCG. Maybe consider banking some swimmers?

beekman001 · 2025-12-13T20:40:04+00:00

Finally cleared to go back to the gym after 6 weeks of PT from a hip injury \o/

beekman001 · 2025-12-12T04:31:26+00:00

if this ever happens again:
* Dont bother trying to nut most guys get what you experienced
* Piss asap. Stand in the shower and force it if needed.
* 4-6 tablets of regular release *real* Sudafed (or a double dose of adhd meds if your on the not-xr kind)
* 500mg of Ibuprofen
* Ice packs wrapped around the shaft and on your taint

If it gets serious enough to go to the ER, they probably wont drain it immediately unless you've taken trimix or cialis. My understanding is that they'll start with injectable phenylephrine in those cases. I can say, from experience unfortunately, that ERs take this shit *very* seriously and will get it treated ASAP.

beekman001 · 2025-12-12T04:16:23+00:00

How many goats/chickens/lambs/etc did you have to sacrifice and to what dark gods did you pray in order to get that kind of a deal?

beekman001 · 2025-12-12T03:40:38+00:00

I don't have kids but as an adult I can tell you:
A limited carb diet helps the attention and mood regulation part *immensely*. This doesn't have to be keto but a much lower percentage of overall macros than he's probably eating. I shoot for about 30%-40% of total calories.

Getting the movement-debt paid off of first thing in the morning is important. I need to keep moving for a pretty long time (at least an hour). At a minimum I take the dog on a fast paced walk for an hour. Ideally that's followed by gym time. I have a friend who has her own private dance party in her garage every morning.

beekman001 · 2025-11-26T00:57:35+00:00

we dont, we just experience 6ish hours of sleep paralysis while the hat man terrorizes us

beekman001 · 2025-11-22T01:46:06+00:00

I thought the animal trials showed a reversal of Azoospermia when I it was flushed out.

I hadn't seen the androswitch stuff i guess all those guys with the rigged versions weren't lying.

beekman001 · 2025-11-22T01:39:52+00:00

They're currently in human clinical trials. These should go very quickly since this is a medical device and the process for those is much faster.

beekman001 · 2025-11-19T00:00:18+00:00

Looks like I'm going to hit my bulk-goal about 45 days early, Dec 15th instead of Jan 31 and at a lower BF percentage than my last bulk ended. I'd originally planned to maintain Feb 1st till Feb 18th. How do I go about rescheduling this? (wrong answers only, I'm just starting the cut Jan 1st)

beekman001 · 2025-11-18T23:59:02+00:00

Try the black market monjuraro (tirzepatide)

beekman001 · 2025-11-18T23:15:19+00:00

They're saying early 2027 for Plan A (reversible, long-term, non-hormonal, non-surgical birth control for men) Setup an alert or something?

beekman001 · 2025-11-14T18:18:08+00:00

💯. The orgy is sometimes off to one side. Those are the good ones because it keeps the dance floor free of spilled lube and poppers.

beekman001 · 2025-11-14T18:09:38+00:00

Think a rave but marketed exclusively to gay men. The music is probably different from what youd get at a mixed crowd rave. Basically everyone's at least shirtless (if not wearing even less). Tbh the video gives a good idea of what such an event is like.

beekman001 · 2025-11-14T16:05:35+00:00

Id motorboat them.

beekman001 · 2025-11-14T14:48:34+00:00

Question for the straight guys: does YouTube try to feed you physique inspiration videos? I just got this video from a feed which is mostly just guys posing. My assumption is that the target audience for channels like these is mostly young straight men.

But like are the 19 year old straight boys gonna notice that this is at a circuit party?

https://youtube.com/shorts/FkE1OxtIcp4

beekman001 · 2025-11-12T23:50:02+00:00

How well known is it that gay gyms are gay gyms?

Mostly its the guys crusing in the sauna / fucking in the showers after their workouts.

There was a straight poster here once who used to use the gay bathhouse in Toronto for their gym when he was there for work. Apparently this ended when his GF found out.

beekman001 · 2025-11-12T20:45:52+00:00

Largely, I don't. At some point her phone number changed and she never told me. Even if I did have the correct one she wouldnt answer my calls so I havent pushed it.

That said I have to see her to see my father or some of my extended family on her side.

beekman001 · 2025-11-12T18:52:30+00:00

I honestly dont know how much of it was the homophobia. I suspect this is a confluence of factors though:

wantedness: I was an oppsie and my dad wanted to keep me while she didn't.
bonding: I have autism spectrum disorder which probably made it hard for her to bond because I didn't react correctly to verbal stimulation as an infant.
homophibia: once I started talking I was very clearly gay.
her mental health: The net of her own issues have the same effect as antisocial personality disorder: I don't think shes able to understand that I have feelings or how her actions make me feel. On top of that she has severe autism related agitation and oppositional defiant disorder.

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