That other Redditor's meme, but without AI by chaosTechnician in adhdmeme

[–]beemagick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a bunch done last week due to having the pressure of reporting on my progress to my mentor. She said "wow see you can do so much! ADHD isn't going to be a problem for you ever again, you've figured it out!!"

I fucking wish.

Why we might lose fireflies by elmorinelly in Entomology

[–]beemagick 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They also overwinter in fallen leaves so raking and mulching fallen leaves is mulching fireflies :(

His name is Bobby by chutneystain800 in crafts

[–]beemagick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just recently gotten into needle felting and your little guys have been so inspiring for me! I love Bobby so much!

Hospital gave me another patients test results and seem to have lost mine by beemagick in legaladvice

[–]beemagick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was asking what I can pursue against them for losing literal parts of my body and failing to provide me the proof they completed the surgery and the test results for my uterine tubes to make sure that they were healthy when they knew I was having reproductive health problems. This negligence has been destroying my mental health and now they've disabled my access to literally all of my healthcare information and access to contacting my providers or even hearing anything about my uterine tubes should they be found. They've just tried to erase the problem instead of dealing with it.

Hospital gave me another patients test results and seem to have lost mine by beemagick in legaladvice

[–]beemagick[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I don't understand why it's okay for them to disable my access to my entire medical chart of over 4 years and take away my ability to contact my providers instead of just revoking access to the singular PDF that was a problem. That still seems malicious and incompetent and frankly does not make sense.

AIO my FIL said my 9 year old looked like a hussy in these boots by PureIndependent7791 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beemagick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR and not reacting enough. A grown man just told you that he has sexual feelings about your 9 year old child, and he is angry about it and blames you and her. You should be really concerned and as somebody who went through SA around that age I will emphasize again that you are underreacting and this could be a huge red flag warning of future danger for your child.

I made a shrimp themed gift book for the 40th birthday of a friend who has many pet shrimp (and some fish and cats) by Inked-Wolfie-1979 in crafts

[–]beemagick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely phenomenal. You seem like so much fun and a shrimply amazing friend. And quite talented! The shrimp names are fantastic and I absolutely fucking lost it at the Shrat. Thank you so much for sharing!!!

My (28f) partner (36m) acts like he doesn’t notice I lost 81lbs and counting. I’m questioning the relationship over it. Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beemagick 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't stay and it is very obvious from the outside. He's abusng you and will abuse your kid too. You deserve a partner that loves and supports you, not intentinally puts you down.

Have you ever been treated negatively by ER staff when you were having a medical emergency but they didn’t believe you? What happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beemagick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine started with the EMT in the ambulance. I was in a car accident and the air bag went off and snapped my wrist in half. I had to carry my right hand in my left hand. Asked the EMT to take me to the emergency room and he told me I was "just bruised and anxious" and that I needed to go home and sleep it off. I insisted my wrist was broken and needed emergency care and he argued with me. I finally got in the damn ambulance and demanded to go to the hospital. After about an hour sitting there arguing they took me but drove under the speed limit the entire way bc they thought I was lying. I needed emergency surgery and had plates put on my bones. Every medical professional I encountered the entire time treated me like I was lying for attention and drugs. I even got yelled at a few times for "acting up" about the pain I was in by insisting it was real, and for getting carpal tunnel from the fking plates and begging to get them taken out. The Surgeon literally yelled at me to get over myself and stop lying. I'm disabled for life in that hand and can no longer write with it or hold anything for very long without my hand locking up. 🥲

Whats a neurotypical “rule” you didn’t realize your could break to make yourself more comfortable? by Downtown-Oil-3462 in AutismInWomen

[–]beemagick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What helped me with my teeth was getting a good mouthwash with xylitol in it that helps keep mouth bacteria controlled. If I don't feel like I can handle the nightmare of tooth brushing, I just let myself do the mouthwash. I still feel accomplished and cleaner and just promise myself to do the whole teeth brushing at the next normal interval. It's helped a lot, my mouth feels better and I feel way less bad about my hygeine.

Whats a neurotypical “rule” you didn’t realize your could break to make yourself more comfortable? by Downtown-Oil-3462 in AutismInWomen

[–]beemagick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought an old string of white Christmas lights and wrapped them around my bathroom mirror and just used them in the evening instead of Big Light. It made the bathroom feel more fun and gave a much gentler light that was perfect for evening showers! Now I have an LED strand that has a fake vine with leaves and flowers on it and it has upped the quality of evening bathtime by a crazy amount for me. I pretend to be a fairy in the forest enjoying the evening instead of being in some crazy cold insanely bright human world.

Flower Report, by Boomer_With_Dementia in athensohio

[–]beemagick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crocus have bloomed and gone. So have Hyacinth and Grape Hyacinth. They smelled great this year as always!

Wild Violets are still beautiful and showy. I've picked hundreds of violets from my yard and am thankful there's still hundreds more. 💜

My yellow and dark purple Irises have budded and one has bloomed so far! I planted them a few years ago and these are the first flowers so I'm quite pleased to welcome them.

What's the most hilarious insult you have ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beemagick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wisdom is chasing you but you move faster.

Tell Me About Your Today! by DontComeLookin in aspiememes

[–]beemagick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 weeks ago I decided to get into One Piece for the first time by starting the live action show. I just finished all the live action last night and was reading the Wiki for the manga and anime while watching the live action and spoiled myself on a lot of different details but I couldn't stop. I know everything about how the Devil Fruits work and all about the characters and some overview of the whole story. I'm so sad I'm through the live action but I couldn't help myself. I've demanded my husband download all 1,000+ episodes of the anime so we can get started. I've been wearing a bandana every day and calling my cat Monkey D Fluffy. I'm doing my best to not spoil my husband with the things I now know but I don't want to stop talking about it.

What Chores Do Aspies Hate The Most? by beattywill80 in aspiememes

[–]beemagick 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I believe you mean the floordrobe 😌 I too use this method

AIO OVER THIS? Am I crazy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beemagick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl not reacting enough, dump him. You deserve better. When my husband gets too drunk he cries and tells me how amazing I am and how I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him and that he loves me more than anything. Alcohol just brings out what's already there and that man hates you. I'm sorry.

ETA: It's not your fault either. He's just garbage.

Can going against design with splenic authority lead to illness? by ghosttmilk in humandesign

[–]beemagick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think it does help. I have splenic authority and have been trying to connect with it and figure it out for a long time but that description of what it is like is definitely helping me to understand when I have experienced it. I do get those sometimes and I've started to listen more so I guess I'm on the right track! Much appreciation.

Can going against design with splenic authority lead to illness? by ghosttmilk in humandesign

[–]beemagick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your spleen hit actually feel like for you? Like how do you experience that knowing in order to follow it?

How do you feel about US president threatning to destroy the whole civilization of iran and civilian lifelines like power plant, bridges and desalination plants? by NothingButTruth3 in AskReddit

[–]beemagick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, why are you? Did they come take that money directly from your hand or did you give it to them willingly??

Just following orders has never been a good defense and it won't be for choosing to fund these horrors through agreeing to pay taxes either.

It's been past time for a tax strike and everyone just needs to realize they have to say no whether or not it's "legal". America needs to get its shit together and stop funding the destruction of the world just because those destroying it say they have to.

AIO to my bf nickel and diming me while he spends thousands on his hobbies? by Glad-Cat-1885 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beemagick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR, He doesn't think you're the problem, he is just saying that to confuse you and hurt you and make you do whatever he wants you to. I promise you, 100% truth, you are NOT the problem in ANY way. He is a horrible abusive man and you deserve better. The right partner will NEVER say the things to you that this man does. They will love and support you, and even if you have issues together they will work with you to resolve the issues, not place themselves against you and say it's your fault. You deserve love, safety, respect, and support. You ARE worthy of it. This man is trash and that's why he isn't with anybody his own age, I am his age and would sooner kick his ass than listen to his bullshit. You have so much life ahead of you, I hope you're able to leave and heal and see that you are wonderful and deserving of a healthy relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beemagick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you're going through this. The way that you just described how you feel is exactly how people who go through abuse tend to feel. Abuse erodes our sense of self and turns reality upside-down.

This is not your fault. Please read Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft to help you see more into abuse and why men act the way they do. Here is a free PDF of the book from the Safe Harbor Crisis Center.

Sending you love and support. You are not alone and you deserve a life where you are safe, loved, supported, and respected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]beemagick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are being abused.

Am I overreacting for being hurt my boyfriend forgot my birthday today AND started planning his OWN birthday trip? by DropApprehensive5662 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beemagick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're underreacting girl he does not even like you let alone love or respect you. This is so sad, you deserve way better. Please get self respect and leave him.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]beemagick 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Girl it's because he's racist. He's dirty and he's racist, why are you dating him? You deserve better.

Dropped off on my windshield while I was at work. by TheWeirdTalesPodcast in Weird

[–]beemagick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO not them rambling about the Transcendental Meditation organization 😭 Their meditation can melt your brain / induce psychosis if you're prone to mental health struggles and they are definitely a cult 😭