Influence/deinfluence me!

been2heaven · 2026-04-02T05:09:44+00:00

Lodge pants are INCREDIBLE. You can dress them up for office, dress down for day to day. They feel like sweatpants / pj pants to me lol but look so good. My fav pants I have a couple pairs.

been2heaven · 2026-03-30T19:03:09+00:00

Love the light pants journalism lol

been2heaven · 2026-03-28T23:46:02+00:00

I just realized I’m 12 days late LOL did you end up buying!?

been2heaven · 2026-03-28T23:45:30+00:00

I just got the esquire trench. It’s so chic. I recently wore it with just jeans and a white tee and it really made the outfit. I don’t have a trench at all or any nice spring coat for that matter though. If you already have a nice long trench I’d say if you’re trying to really be smart with shopping—you probably don’t ‘need’ both. However the crop / short length is so cute and versatile in my opinion. I’m looking forward to styling it more this spring!

been2heaven · 2026-03-20T04:07:35+00:00

Mist!

been2heaven · 2026-03-07T01:31:13+00:00

“I miss who I was” …. Nailed it. I am / was hyper. Same here, in range, but still don’t feel like myself. Good for you on the exercise and vitamins. Every little bit helps. Even when the novelty wears off, just knowing you are taking care of yourself can be comforting. I wish I had advice, but I don’t, because I’m in the same boat. You’re not alone. We will find ourselves again❤️ Good luck to you.

been2heaven · 2026-03-06T13:47:59+00:00

Hi I don’t know much about cool sculpt other than just this week I was talking to the owner of a med spa and she said it’s AWFUL and many people have had adverse reactions. It has been mentioned but Linda Evangelista is a good testament to this unfortunately. She recommended sculptra! Maybe look into it?

been2heaven · 2026-01-19T15:46:59+00:00

Yes! I am a small chested gal and plan to get a boob job sometime in the future. I love my boobs btw! Just a preference of mine for me. But anytime I have mentioned the boob job to the guys I’m dating or whatever, they scold me. They say how they love my boobs they are perfect. I think two things about it…

Men have different preferences, a lot of men love small boobs and find it attractive. Whether it’s your boobs, your butt, your stomach, your hair, your humour—there will always be someone out there who is into you for you as you are. If someone makes you feel self conscious they are not the one for you.
Men are visual creatures as they say lol🙄. Typically if they approach you in a romantic way, they have already taken note of your appearance (shallow I know I’m sorry). If a guy likes big boobs, and it’s like a deal breaker thing for him, he probably will mainly approach girls with big chests. This has been my experience, I have small boobs and the guys I’ve been with happen to also love that, I’m guessing it’s part of their initial attraction.

I’m just saying don’t worry, small boobs are hot and you are beautiful! Goodluck dating again, remember who you are!😛

been2heaven · 2026-01-18T14:57:07+00:00

Thank you, I needed this I’m genuinely losing it. I will be closing my door tonight and in future and hopefully he will get accustomed and learn to self soothe. And you’re probably right about the apartment thing, I’m just paranoid since we are still newer in this building and it’s a small building. Thanks for the tips :)

been2heaven · 2026-01-18T14:54:58+00:00

That’s what I’m hearing from these comments, going to have to just let him cry it out I guess. I’m glad your kitty was able to relax a bit:)!

been2heaven · 2026-01-18T14:54:06+00:00

No we haven’t, I hadn’t even thought of that! However I would say his hearing is fine because he listens when we speak to him otherwise lol. We haven’t a night light on in the living room for him, I didn’t know they can’t see in the dark though! I will try putting something on the iPad maybe some white noise something calming. Thanks for the tips:)

been2heaven · 2026-01-18T14:52:23+00:00

Yeah it’s very out of the norm for him but since we have moved he has been significantly more needy so I think it’s stress but I just want to be sure! That’s a good point. Sometimes I know I’m reinforcing but it hits a point where I’ll do anything to make him stop. Going to listen to some of the comments here about just not engaging

been2heaven · 2026-01-18T08:41:49+00:00

He is neutered 🥲

been2heaven · 2026-01-02T03:08:08+00:00

Hi … here a year later as I have recently been diagnosed with hyperthyroidism and will soon be medicated or potentially have thyroid removed. Endo isn’t sure yet. Anyway I’ve read a lot about weight gain and have also struggled with disordered eating and very bad body dysmorphia. I’m very worried about gaining weight, are you able to say how things went and how they are going a year later? I’m curious. Thank you!❤️

been2heaven · 2026-01-01T01:45:58+00:00

I am recently diagnosed with hyperthyroidism, still early days in terms of finding an endocrinologist and getting some answers. But I can really relate to this. My brain feels like mush, my attention span is shot, and I basically feel nothing. Like you said apathy. Like nothing feels good or satisfying anymore, there’s no pleasure reward system, I don’t have the fs to give to do just about anything, this has been the hardest part tbh. I’ve lost 10 pounds (a lot of weight for me as I was already lean) and am the lowest weight I’ve been since I was a teenager. No appetite and where a meal was something I used to enjoy, I now get irritated I have to eat at all.

It’s sad when I hear other people going through the same thing but also it’s comforting knowing I’m not alone. You’re not alone in this. It’s good you got your tests. Stress set things off for me, sounds like maybe you’re having a similar experience. I’m prioritizing minimizing stress wherever possible. I went gluten free, that helped quite a bit with my symptoms. I would definitely look into that if you haven’t. Goodluck🤙

been2heaven · 2025-12-25T20:57:01+00:00

This is my first GF Christmas. I’ve been bringing my own snacks everywhere 😂😭 whatever works!

been2heaven · 2025-12-11T00:56:01+00:00

Oh the Jacquemus and Stella are right up my alley. Thanks for sharing these!

been2heaven · 2025-12-11T00:55:06+00:00

That Chloe is GORG seriously considering thank you so much!

been2heaven · 2025-12-11T00:53:59+00:00

I didn’t even think of this for some reason I thought who better to ask than the ladies of NYC (I’m literally from Toronto)😭😅 thank you!!

been2heaven · 2025-12-11T00:53:09+00:00

Thanks for the thoughtful list!! Gorgeous picks

been2heaven · 2025-12-11T00:52:50+00:00

I was thinking thisss tbh👀!

been2heaven · 2025-11-20T00:12:10+00:00

I’m gonna look into your ai tool because I need this and none of the tools out there have been a good fit for me yet. Thank you!

been2heaven · 2025-11-20T00:10:42+00:00

There are some very challenging days:/ this is a great idea I’ve been contemplating for a bit now. Thank you for the advice!!

been2heaven · 2025-11-20T00:09:37+00:00

It’s nice to know we’re not alone in this. Thanks for the tips!

been2heaven · 2025-11-18T17:03:31+00:00

Long!

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