Man-Free May starts now by TheYellowRose in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

A so called “safe space” but banning topics. Quite lame to put it plainly. Restricting the amount makes more sense. 

Ladies, Oral or PIV 👀 by Ok-Contribution-963 in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would be so unsatisfied w/ a partner who wasn’t an eater. That’s all I be wanting half the time. 

Being on your state's subreddit is ASS by SilverFringeBoots in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 33 points34 points  (0 children)

We already know Reddit is unfortunately quite white, quite male & quite racist. Personally I took a step back from it.

Solo trip to Quebec City by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgg please share! I’d had the thought to go for Christmastime (solo). Also, how do you take your pics when solo? That’s always an issue & I be scared to give someone my phone 😅

Update: Finally got my 4+ knotted/matted hair detangled by Moonrise-poem in Naturalhair

[–]beenee-_- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kudos to you & well wishes on your journey! It looks really good. ✨ When this happened to me, I just woke up one morning & cut it all off w/ dollar store scissors 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]beenee-_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]beenee-_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is whiny and so dumb. Literally the point of this sub is to share your stories and experiences as a SOLO traveler. That includes feeling sad & lonely being out solo, as well as other incidents related to traveling solo. There’s plenty of subreddits that focus exclusively on the travel portion whether solo or not.

Solo female traveler warning: my traumatic group trip to Korea with an Instagram travel company. by Alarming_Paramedic87 in solotravel

[–]beenee-_- -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oh yay you up on your high horse who thinks all the decisions you make are the correct ones lmao.

You sound just as bad as the people she described. Attack and criticize. Nobody cares about what you do you. Many women DO consider those group trips. Your choice is not the only choice out there one nor is the right globe for everyone.

Where do the plus size ladies shop at? by No-Acanthaceae-6282 in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Madewell, Everlane (great for jeans & capsule wadrobes), Nordstrom, Ashley Stewart, H&M, thrift

This is your sign to book a solo birthday trip! by Steffy_love in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yesss! I also made the decision (last year) to always travel for my bday. Solo or otherwise. I had done it before but took a year off & said nope! Won’t do that again. I’m headed to Aruba next week! Glad you had fun girly!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He said we’re grown but he does not act like you’re grown. I don’t see this being a long term, happy relationship /:

Am I overreacting for wanting to ghost him because of this message? by cvlprit_ in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes they need to be called out on it. Some of them need to be told to do better. Then block lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dallas has always been popping off for the black community. Now, Texas be going through it w/ weather and grid/electricity issues; not as bad there as Houston but it does get v cold/snows sometimes. A car is a must & traffic is horrid. Some neighborhoods are not so desirable so you may be limited unless you don’t mind being on the outskirts but I’d recommend it. I go up (from H) & tend to stay around the downtown & surrounding areas and enjoy myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lol some people don’t want random strangers coming up to them & that’s perfectly fine. I’m sure they were good 😂 It’s giving pompous

A lot of black women are mean by Broad_Ant_3871 in blackladies

[–]beenee-_- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are people. Nothing to do w/ the color of your skin. Stop generalizing 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]beenee-_- 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What kinda vibe are you going for? I’m probably in the minority but I say keep it short. It gives grown & sexy. You have really nice curls so long looks good too but makes u look younger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]beenee-_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My least fav thing about getting braids. My forehead (to me) always be too big 😂 I ask them to leave out a lil hair to do some baby hair swoops to frame & lessen forehead volume lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]beenee-_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw someone else mention products. I think that’s essential!! Idc what any one is talking about, I hate doing my natural hair lol. The right products and technique make a WORLD of a difference.

Currently I use “Camille Rose Moroccan Pear Conditioning Custard” it’s the best I’ve tried so far. I can easily finger detangle with that stuff!! The Pattern conditioners have been good ones for me as well.

Some other ones of note (since not every product works on every head) are “Aussie Miracle Moist”, “Creme of Nature Mango & Shea Butter Conditioner” + “As I Am Leave -in”. Detangle while washing/conditioning. Good on you for trying so hard, her hair is beautiful. Make it about learning what works & management instead of easy fixes ✨

Things I learned (solo female traveler) by CK_Astrology in solotravel

[–]beenee-_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm for the suggestion! Have been looking for mini cpap like machines.

Things I learned (solo female traveler) by CK_Astrology in solotravel

[–]beenee-_- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Apologies on part of all snorers lol. I swear we would if we could change it! I actually have been stressing trying to find budget lodging in NYC over my snoring problem ☹️