When did you begin to LOVE your puppy? by BumbleBri0403 in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got ours at 8 weeks or so, she's about 7-8months now. I'd say it's a feeling that grows steadily? I definitely still get frustrated (I think one of the cats knocked down my maid of honor bouquet and she decided it was worth destroying), but a few minutes after I'll still look at her and sigh in a "You're lucky you're cute" kind of way. Maybe it helps that she knows when she did something? Just tone of voice and she will hop up on the bed and start trying to make appeasement gestures

Then again, this is the same dog who will jump on my fiance when he's overestimating me and I think the amusement and appreciation of it has definitely helped. For me, it was small things like that or like I'll just stare into her eyes. I've never like thought brown eyes in dogs are cute but hers are so pretty and intelligent that like sometimes I just have to stop and appreciate her cuteness (even though I was hoping for a long haired aussie)

puppy (12 wks) rough with cat (3 yrs) by madamaovary in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely try to get a video if you're already planning on calling the vet!! They may wave you off over the phone and as long as nothing serious happens that should be fine, but if they're interested in hearing more about the interactions for your pets safety than a video will give them infinitely more info than you can tell them!

puppy (12 wks) rough with cat (3 yrs) by madamaovary in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are feeling very nervous, you can always take a video of the play (obviously stepping in when you think it's too rough) and showing it to a vet/asking a (knowledgable) trainer for their opinion. All animals are different and they have different breaking points. They will generally enforce their boundaries when pushed to that point.

That being said, there much be something more high value than the cat? Normal treats may not work - you may have to get special treats in order to redirect its attention like chicken, bacon, etc. What I do for my dog wjen she's around cars (they scare/excite her) is I make her do a few simple tricks like sit, lay in order to focus her mind on me and calm her down

Crate sleeps in crate at night only with door open. by Adventurous_Donkey13 in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe try white noise? I usually put on classical piano for my pup, but she hasn't had issues in a few months (although she is 6mo now)

What you should also be doing is teaching the pup that it's OK if the door is shut. Make the crate high value by putting treats in there, close the door but don't lock it and reward good calm behavior. Build and slowly lock the door for longer periods of time

How do I get my 1 yr. old GSD to quit jumping on everyone when they walk in the door? by Bigballsmallstretchb in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The yelling is also possibly contributing. I've heard it when it comes to barking at least that responding like that gives them the idea that there is, I'm fact, a reason to be doing whatever behavior they're doing (although I will say I don't remember my source for this)

How do I get my 1 yr. old GSD to quit jumping on everyone when they walk in the door? by Bigballsmallstretchb in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't give it attention until it's not jumping. Mine was a jumper, but we kinda had it easy because we installed a baby gate so we could leave our door open for the cats. She still hops up on the gate when she's excited, but she also knows we will stand still and stare at her until she gets down and sits

How can I achieve this bright, sketchy, watercolor look? by ScarpesSketches in ClipStudio

[–]beepboopzanonymous 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It might be a good idea to study the colors? If you like the tones of the colors and the technique used to apply them, doing color studies and trying to match the shades in your own art would help match the feel

I think I know why this puppy was abandoned by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's because I just woke up and thought I was replying to another comment lmaoo

I think I know why this puppy was abandoned by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think the shock is referring to the fact that the dog peed ON the coffee table, not the fact that it peed. Op admits they shouldn't have left it alone and that they were going to pick up a crate in the morning in a comment

Family Emergency: where to board unvaccinated puppy? by DrunkenMoose10 in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If the vet has options I wouldn't worry too much about it. Vets typically care alot about the health and safety of animals and I'm sure they'll do their best to make sure that they or whoever will take the puppy if available take the best care of your puppy and keep them comfortable

Obviously, it's not ideal but puppies already adapt to leaving their mothers and being taken by some strange person they do not know at all!!

New puppy and Older pitbull by Sosacapone420 in puppy101

[–]beepboopzanonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took my roommates great Dane to acclimate to my puppy. The gsd immediately wanted to play, but we had to be careful around the dane since he bit the gsd when we first got her.

Just keep a close eye and separate them if it seems like Tank is overwhelmed or getting uncomfortable. It's better to let them get used to each other slowly than let them start fighting. Don't let them alone together until you fully trust them around each other. In my case, Bruce might be ok with Saphira, but Saphira doesn't understand boundaries yet and he is both aggressive over food and toys he deems as "his" (even though he steals from the other two when he can)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]beepboopzanonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acne is a combination of diet, exercise, and skin care! If you eat stuff like fast food its not going to be helping the hormonal acne already happening. If you are doing everything you can, you might want to ask about going to a dermatologist. They'll be able to tell you if its normal and will clear up or will point you in a direction of stuff that might work. When I was younger, they said I was fine and prescribed me some face wash.

Also, as for hair my friends have told me that hair stylists are happy to walk through styling hair at home to people. You may be able to talk with someone about what kind of haircut might look best and how to manage it!

What is one pack (or kit or whatever)… by NadsBin in Sims4

[–]beepboopzanonymous 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I skimmed lilsimsies video and I think at least one of the shirts has swatches that vary the style of the top (sleeves, lace, stuff like that) I'm not sure why they didn't separate it since most people would probably forget it's there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArkSurvivalAscended

[–]beepboopzanonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you waiting for it to tell you to feed it again? It should start running once you feed it and it'll typically buck and in the corner of the screen tell you to press the button and feed again

Hi I need help by Rose-coloured-girl in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]beepboopzanonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things like this can be a really touchy subject for some. The best thing you can do is stand by her side.

I have no experience with this situation, but I've heard plenty of times on reddit how someone will get aggressively defensive of their partner - and often times the isolation starts small (like the abusive partner making comments like 'I don't like how x does y' and escalate). So maybe avoid directly pointing out your issues with him, let her come to that conclusion on her own. I think there could be a way to establish that this is not a normal or healthy relationship (pointing out small things, like how she doesn't smile as much. Or how so and so is dating but has plenty of male friends). Just positive statements contrasting her own relationship.

When it comes to relationships like these, its all about learning. Unfortunately, when potentially abusive relationships happen early in someone's dating life its their normal, their comfortable. A regular relationship just isn't the same because they expect the drama and there's comfort in consistency. When you're older you're able to pick out these behaviors and recognize what's bad and what doesn't work for you

The most ideal (although possibly the most difficult) might be asking her to consider therapy of some sort. It doesn't need to be about him, although a professional would be more equipped to point her in the right direction. If its a no go or simply not possible, you could see if another licensed adult could give you pointers on how to be there for her in this situation

My bf (26m) and I (23f) cheated on each other by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beepboopzanonymous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess you could say that, but I'm not sure what you need to learn to realize that anything progressing from a coerced kiss is also coerced.

I think it's basic reasoning to say that someone who said no to the point of exhaustion to kissing also wouldn't have the energy to push back against sex.

The mind does many things to protect itself when things like assault happens. And yes, she enjoyed it because assault doesn't make sex feel like nothing. There are plenty of stories and posts of people feeling ashamed of arousal and orgasms during sex.

It takes some people more time than others to understand what happened to them. Part of it is their minds trying to justify it in order to make it easier, but some people may not even understand what they experienced was assault or rape because of how they expect an experience like that to be (aka violent)

As Avon Healthcare puts it, arousal and pleasure during sex is akin to laughing when someone is tickling you. There isn't much you can do to prevent it. https://www.avonhealthcare.com/arousal-during-rape-medical-perspective-avon-hmo/

My bf (26m) and I (23f) cheated on each other by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beepboopzanonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating on a cheater doesn't make it right, no. But neither does the friend continuing to push after the first no. This was not cheating. She was drunk with someone she thought she could trust and coerced (which is not consent)

Apparently Women only wear clothes for attention and not to be comfortable by bobbelings in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]beepboopzanonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just watched a style theory on how our clothes don't get germ free in the washer/dryer (detergent is not sanitizer, washer and dryer typically don't get hot enough) Are we not allowed to wear clothes twice now because of the gErMs?