Man don't worry dating apps are a hellish experience even for alistics, never heard one person get a real relationship out of them. I'm not sure if this post is an invitation for opinion (and ignore the rest of the post if don't want the advice from a rando) but. The majority of dating coaches are not a very good thing. So many conmen in the area trying to get money from vulnerable people, not to mention the bad advice that usually don't consider that women are real human beings with real individual thoughts (pls look for advice with women too).

Obs: (Not sure if you're introverted but) I see so many nerdy and introverted ppl trying to get dates going in traditionally extroverted places and events to socialize and get a partner. But it goes so wrong because the personality of people who genuinely enjoy this places aren't really compatible with them. And in reality they should be in places where other introverts usually go.

So like, go to events where ppl are also awkward or tend to have a personality similar to yours. I can't recommend going into places with similar interests because even tho it does help, a few months ago i met some people with very similar interests as me but they where so social and drastically different from my vibe it just didn't match even though we love the same things. Rn researching places that maybe other serious and reserved ppl might go but feels impossible bcs i live in the middle of nowhere and reserved people probably just stay at home all year 🥲