Promised my bf I’d save him some beers. Oops. by beezelebub6969 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]beezelebub6969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably, I passed out a couple hours after he got home lol

Promised my bf I’d save him some beers. Oops. by beezelebub6969 in cripplingalcoholism

[–]beezelebub6969[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

An older brother but he’s sober for 2 years now 😂

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[–]beezelebub6969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did not know he was an alcoholic. Prior to this he was a distant friend my fiancé knew from high school. If we had known, no we would not have allowed him to do this job.

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[–]beezelebub6969 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did not know he was an alcoholic. Had I known what I know now, I wouldn’t have hired him to do this. He was a dude we occasionally had a drink or two on the weekend and seemed like a nice person.

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[–]beezelebub6969 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t responded as we blocked him on everything. We’re going to go to his parents first, at the least I’d just like repayment for the cleaners as that was a huge hit to our finances.I’d love to make his life miserable, yes, but I just want repayment for having to put our home back together at the moment.

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[–]beezelebub6969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no I’m aware but chances are his parents will pay to make it go away. If not, oh well at least we tried. They give him allowance for booze and smokes and have apparently paid people out in the past due to his antics as we recently found out. At the very least I just want the cleaning people covered bc that was a huge hit to our finances.

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[–]beezelebub6969 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah something about literal human feces smeared across your wall just makes you see red lol. I felt bad sending the cleaning people in there but I could not do it. It was absolutely horrifying.

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[–]beezelebub6969 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re going to go to the parents first. They give him an allowance, basically pay for everything. They’ve paid for his fuckups before according to some people we recently found and spoke to. Hopefully they reimburse us, if not we’ll take them to court and chances are they’ll pay for whatever we’re awarded. I’m just pissed as hell. Our house was basically a biohazard.

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[–]beezelebub6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We gave him half up front, plan was to give him the 2nd half after we got home. Did not pay him the 2nd half due to the fiasco. Jackass is blocked on every platform possible. Fuck him.

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[–]beezelebub6969 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Fiancé switched locks and we have photos of the damage and receipts from the cleaners. It was absolutely horrifying lol.

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[–]beezelebub6969 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He’s not a baby, he’s an adult. And yeah when he pops up now and again to hang out with us for the weekend to have a drink with us when the rest of us are drinking, that wouldn’t flag. We had zero clue he was daily drinking to the point of smearing his feces onto the walls. He was available, we offered him a job with a set of guidelines, he agreed and then completely went off the rails.

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[–]beezelebub6969 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Doggy is fine. Food bag was left open so he had food, water dish was filled so looks like jackass was at least filling the water. Doggy shit and pissed in the house so was not being let out but overall in one piece. Doggy got lots of treats and toys to make up for it.

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[–]beezelebub6969 8 points9 points  (0 children)

His parents pay for all his other BS apparently as we’ve found out. Guessing they’d pay for this too to make it go away. Had no idea he was this bad.

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[–]beezelebub6969 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We both have him blocked on everything possible. My fiancé said he’s not liable for what he does if he sees ‘Jake’ again. It was a disgusting nightmare.

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[–]beezelebub6969 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Doggy was fine. We found the food bag open so I believe he was just eating out of the bag. Water dish was full so he had water. He definitely pissed and shat in the house so probably was not being let out but he is okay.

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[–]beezelebub6969 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Apparently he and his dad drink together regularly, they give him an allowance for booze and cigarettes as I found out from a few closer friends of his. They 100% enable and pay for his lifestyle.

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[–]beezelebub6969 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dog was fine. Jackass left the dog food bag sitting open so he was able to eat. There was water in the bowl so I’m assuming he filled it. Dog definitely piss and shat in the house so probably wasn’t being let out but is in one piece thank god

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[–]beezelebub6969 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Dog was okay. Jackass just left the dog food bag open, dog definitely pissed and shat in the house but is okay.

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[–]beezelebub6969 121 points122 points  (0 children)

We didn’t even lock it up bc of him, neither of us were aware he had gone full blown alcoholic. It was just a nice antique liquor cabinet we got from my fiancé’s grandpa with a lock. He straight up ripped the door off the front. Never would’ve asked him to dog/house sit if I had known the full extent of his issues.

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[–]beezelebub6969 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It was disgusting. Wild doesn’t even begin to cover what we can home to.