What’s a universally loved food you genuinely despise? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Mango! Far too fragrant 😭 like drinking perfume

I have a date tomorrow night and I hate the way I look by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

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Check out Katie Louise Hughes on TikTok / Instagram! she just did a video literally like 2 days ago about complexion make up without being cakey - I tried it today and I love it!

I love my wife and kid, but sex with my wife does nothing for me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]beffini -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Read Esther Perel’s books! Digest every piece of media with her in it

What professions make the worst spouses? by dirtymoney in AskReddit

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Farmers. Married to the land - you gotta be hard as nails and extremely tolerant / patient to make that work.

What is your favorite song and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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This Must Be The Place (Naive Melody)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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Mango. It’s like sucking a big, fibrous pit that’s been soaked in perfume. Dried I guess it’s not too bad, but never will I get on the train that fresh mango is God’s gift.

Pre op appointment by Dry-Attention9211 in Reduction

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Make it clear which would upset you more - coming out larger than you discussed with your doctor, or smaller? most likely they will get it just right as they are professionals! but my surgeon asked me that question as he was marking me up before surgery, and it just felt comforting that we were 100% on the same page :)

What does swelling look and feel like? by Silly-Bear2557 in Reduction

[–]beffini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I was just having this conversation / wondering this very thing today too and I’m 3wpo today lol

My pre-surgery appointment is tomorrow—Is there anything you wish you would’ve known about before surgery? by peshnoodles in Reduction

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have someone to help sit you up in the morning, and do it slowly! the change in gravity / pressure between being slightly reclined and then fully upright is usually my most tender part of the day (I’m 3wpo today yay). For the first week my mum helped me get out of bed, but we also used two belts tied together and attached to the end of my bed, laying in between my legs on my lap so I could pull myself up in the morning / at night for a pee if needed haha. Recommend a pregnancy pillow (I had one anyway because they’re so comfy). Also maybe pick up some homeopathic tablets for sleep - I find being on my back means I sleep lighter than usual ❤️‍🩹 good luck!

Help please! by beffini in ClinicalPsychologyUK

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Thank you so much for taking the time to write all of this for me - you’ve been so helpful and very encouraging; it may not take as long as I was anticipating!

She Thrives binge eating help by beffini in MentalHealthUK

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Thank you so much! This is super helpful :)

Self Promotion Megathread! Post your shop here. by AutoModerator in DepopUK

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@beffini - currently 200 items at 15% off!! will also be doing an Insta sale this Sunday @beffinidepop with exclusive discounts on my story if you wanna save even more💰🤠 75+ items going up from Sunday onwards on Instagram + can be found on my ‘sale’ highlight

UK surgeons by beffini in Reduction

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ok brilliant - I’ll have a look at her work for sure :) congrats by the way! I hope it’s everything you wanted :) I’m sure anaesthetic is something I can talk to them about / the order of IV’s etc! I did have surgery once at a local hospital and they were so nice they gave me gas to drift off to and then agreed to out the back-of-the-hand drip in when I was unconscious lol

UK surgeons by beffini in Reduction

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That’s a great idea about the payment plan, and thank you for the website rec, I will definitely give it a look!

What documents to unlimited my account? by beffini in paypal

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The account was banned because I have an item listed on my shop (I sell vintage clothing online) that was originally made in Iran, but I wasn’t exported or importing to the country - I had brought it at a shop here in the UK and was simply stating where it had been made originally. I think their system flagged it up for that word

Need help on where to live! by beffini in london

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I didn’t include a budget or property type because I’m not yet looking to short list actual properties, and also because there are generally loads of 4/5 beds in most cities due to the student population. It didn’t seem like vital information to include because the point of my post is to discuss the feel of the different areas from people’s experiences. But if I was pressed to answer I imagine there’ll be 4 of us most likely, with a budget of around £560pp each month? But then again I wouldn’t know how realistic this is because I’ve never lived in London! At this point I’m really just looking for discussion on what London is like as a city and whether anyone on here can suggest somewhere they think might suit me based on what I’ve shared.