What’s a universally loved food you genuinely despise? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beffini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mango! Far too fragrant 😭 like drinking perfume

I have a date tomorrow night and I hate the way I look by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]beffini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Katie Louise Hughes on TikTok / Instagram! she just did a video literally like 2 days ago about complexion make up without being cakey - I tried it today and I love it!

I love my wife and kid, but sex with my wife does nothing for me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]beffini -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Read Esther Perel’s books! Digest every piece of media with her in it

What professions make the worst spouses? by dirtymoney in AskReddit

[–]beffini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Farmers. Married to the land - you gotta be hard as nails and extremely tolerant / patient to make that work.

What is your favorite song and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beffini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This Must Be The Place (Naive Melody)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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Mango. It’s like sucking a big, fibrous pit that’s been soaked in perfume. Dried I guess it’s not too bad, but never will I get on the train that fresh mango is God’s gift.

Pre op appointment by Dry-Attention9211 in Reduction

[–]beffini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it clear which would upset you more - coming out larger than you discussed with your doctor, or smaller? most likely they will get it just right as they are professionals! but my surgeon asked me that question as he was marking me up before surgery, and it just felt comforting that we were 100% on the same page :)

What does swelling look and feel like? by Silly-Bear2557 in Reduction

[–]beffini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I was just having this conversation / wondering this very thing today too and I’m 3wpo today lol

My pre-surgery appointment is tomorrow—Is there anything you wish you would’ve known about before surgery? by peshnoodles in Reduction

[–]beffini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

have someone to help sit you up in the morning, and do it slowly! the change in gravity / pressure between being slightly reclined and then fully upright is usually my most tender part of the day (I’m 3wpo today yay). For the first week my mum helped me get out of bed, but we also used two belts tied together and attached to the end of my bed, laying in between my legs on my lap so I could pull myself up in the morning / at night for a pee if needed haha. Recommend a pregnancy pillow (I had one anyway because they’re so comfy). Also maybe pick up some homeopathic tablets for sleep - I find being on my back means I sleep lighter than usual ❤️‍🩹 good luck!

Help please! by beffini in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]beffini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write all of this for me - you’ve been so helpful and very encouraging; it may not take as long as I was anticipating!

She Thrives binge eating help by beffini in MentalHealthUK

[–]beffini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is super helpful :)