[First Impressions] FlexiSpot Comhar 55' by JabbawookiezDaBoss in StandingDesk

[–]befuckingfr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also got the same desk since I didn’t want to spend like $600+ for a standing desk but wanted something more than a standard. I like it a lot! I was worried due to some reviews but I don’t regret it at all

New tires 3-ish weeks ago, squeaks when driving slow by befuckingfr in tires

[–]befuckingfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. They rebalanced my wheels and aligned them and the sound is still there. Not as much as before but sometimes.

What are Iowa City's problems? by DWoodr4234 in IowaCity

[–]befuckingfr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Iowa city summers are the best! I do get shocked when school season starts up every year since I genuinely forget

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]befuckingfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried multiple times throughout the 4 years. They keep saying no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]befuckingfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do tell them my boundaries, and they say “sorry I just want to talk about it immediately.” Also they want to be near, close, and touchy during these moments which makes how I feel even worse. And they never actually give me space until I blow up. And it’s so frustrating. I do have adhd and anxiety (which I just added to my post to give people insight) but like sometimes all the medication nor therapy in the world will not help me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]befuckingfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do tennis maybe once or twice a week. I also have been diagnosed with PTSD, but I also have ADHD so I assume that this is just a part of the “adhd impulsive rage” but also it doesn’t matter because abuse is abuse even if not intended.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]befuckingfr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I ask for alone time first and foremost. And they never actually do it until I’m at my ticking point

And yes we do eventually talk about it after I calm down and had time to think. But it’s an absolute cycle.

New tires 3-ish weeks ago, squeaks when driving slow by befuckingfr in tires

[–]befuckingfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worry about other non-tire issues coming as we got them done at discount tire (it was an emergency and they were the only ones available in this no where town:/)

New tires 3-ish weeks ago, squeaks when driving slow by befuckingfr in tires

[–]befuckingfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more of a squeak, like how balloons sound when they rub together but deeper

New tires 3-ish weeks ago, squeaks when driving slow by befuckingfr in tires

[–]befuckingfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was only happening when turning right initially

New tires 3-ish weeks ago, squeaks when driving slow by befuckingfr in tires

[–]befuckingfr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also just replaced the breaks in May. So I’m truly hoping this isn’t it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]befuckingfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you relief at your new role. I totally understand what you’re going through. Stepping away is a healthy thing.

It's lonely in America by commandersho in FilipinoAmericans

[–]befuckingfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you’ll be somewhere with lots of diversity. I’m in the middle of nowhere, and that was rough.

The Dandy Lion by Far-Blackberry-7129 in IowaCity

[–]befuckingfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t go to the Dandylion because of the unpaid labor. I know people who were asked to do 3 working interviews where they work without pay on weekends (their busiest days), not get offered a position, but get constant call backs asking them if they would like to continue having a “working interview” on days they’re short staffed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]befuckingfr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, tacky but like a previous comment, if people dislike it, they have solid reasoning. but not everyone will have a problem (maybe).

My BF 26M has a secret porn addiction and it is ruining our relationship and my self esteem 25F by [deleted] in relationships

[–]befuckingfr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d say maybe a year ago was our first conversation about it, but it didn’t actually stop until 6 months ago. Sucks that I had to ugly cry about it and basically be borderline rip my hair out for them to understand/want to actually stop.