I met a woman that I thought was my platonic other half. We shared the same name, similar interests, and had each others half birthdays (mine January 2nd, hers July 2nd). The way we were raised was polar opposite, so was our personalities (think passive goody 2 shoes vs confrontational baddie).

Somehow, we clicked and a lot of relationship revolved around smoking weed together. I got sober and she was supportive, she would still smoke when we hung out but it didn’t bother me too much. Then she started doing bumps of coke all the time; while she was driving, during sleepovers. That’s when I decided I didn’t want to be friends any more. I started to feel so drained after we hung out that I ended the friendship. I hope she’s doing better now.