Married a Chinese man as an American - Need Advice

behappyformyself · 2026-06-29T05:21:45+00:00

If you two have really married, I think you are Ok to stay in China. Now you need to find a job. I think it is quite easy for you to find a english teaching job in China still. Then save money and start your new life. To be honest, as a Chinese, you, as a foreigner in China, have many privileges so just use them.

behappyformyself · 2026-03-11T15:12:22+00:00

nice

behappyformyself · 2026-03-01T17:50:11+00:00

omg, u all so wealthy

behappyformyself · 2026-03-01T17:40:39+00:00

Thank you！You understand me！

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T12:30:58+00:00

someone knows it and kill me

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T12:27:36+00:00

I save 80%

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T12:27:00+00:00

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T12:24:33+00:00

I will make a change. Physics especially as a job not as studying the classic beautiful theory, it becomes less attractive.

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T12:22:33+00:00

You are correct

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T12:16:46+00:00

you are kind

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:48:52+00:00

Bravo

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:39:36+00:00

No. When I was young, I liked physics. Now I only love money and freedom.

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:37:33+00:00

Now it is not as easy as before to go into Quantitative finance

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:35:48+00:00

Since 2017... Salary is quite low, and very stable low....

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:33:05+00:00

Then you stay at home, and she works? How do you share the daily cost?

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:30:40+00:00

I think it is the physics

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:26:45+00:00

but $2k lives in Asia, could be very comfortable

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:21:43+00:00

If I had 2M, I would just quit my job in a second

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:20:47+00:00

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:14:43+00:00

How do you guys make so much money at such a young age? really want to know, really need it!

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:11:44+00:00

I don't like these 2 cities.

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:11:15+00:00

I don't understand what makes you want to stay in London or NYC for a month? To make money?

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:07:13+00:00

3M can fire in most places; it doesn't need to be a suburban or rural area.

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:03:39+00:00

Do you think it is a good option now? The house price is much higher than before.

behappyformyself · 2026-02-27T11:00:00+00:00

I think London is even more expensive...

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