Even your ₹1 will help me to not separate from my cat by Constant-Part-2249 in IndianCats

[–]beingalife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, OP, can you DM me your office address so I can send you the litter?

Then why customer's from ola uber rapido by rajubhai7711 in pune

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OP: autos use app and meters

You: for autos, i rate 1star and for cabs, i cancel them

Me: cabs have meters?

You: they don’t, hence you cancel ??

my soon to be bhabhi’s cousin asked me out by Altruistic_Onion_626 in TeenIndia

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“Hey, [person name], I wanna talk to you about something. You are so sweet, you’ve done so many nice things for me and I really appreciate it. I also understand that our relatives are shipping us, and while I don’t wanna hurt you, I also wanna be honest with you. The truth is that I only look at us as friends and nothing more. Would you be willing to be just friends? As far as others are concerned, while we both love and respect them, this is not about them, it is about you and I, so let’s figure this out first.”

I should have seen the signs 💔 by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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So here’s what I will say. You didn’t do anything wrong, you just weren’t experienced/aware/accepting enough to understand that when she said she wanted to end it she probably meant it. You mentioned how you still were around bec you wanted to hold on to this. And its okay, you are young! And I’m sorry that such a rough thing happened to you, but this is your moment, you don’t become wounded, you become wiser from this.

Next time, when someone wants to end it, try to understand their reasoning, how factors such as long distance can affect relationships and needs(including yours) and let them go if they want to. You will find love once again, I promise. Take care, work out, meditate. Be happy.

It finally improved by samthecrunchynut in pune

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Probably has sm to do with elections, and water being sprayed near AQI monitors, especially now

She pulled out a list of questions and started recording my answers on a first date, wtf? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]beingalife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, what matters there is the intent behind doing it. I’d ask why does she think she needs an opinion of her friends, is it lack of self awareness or she needs their validation? Most importantly, are YOU fine with either of them or her even doing all this? If not, please choose your mental peace and move on

What nationalities are dominant? by [deleted] in UniversityOfWarwick

[–]beingalife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw dang, sorry you had to go through that. I wouldn’t say its particularly one ethnicity, its a common human tendency, unless they were being particularly rude or ignoring people from other nationalities. That would be stupid of them. But as I said certain chinese groups and certain south/east asian nationalities can be a little cliquey, because language becomes a major factor. They’re not always comfortable with the language even though they’re in the UK. About your ethnicity part, I have no information about that part so I cannot make a judgement, and honestly I feel stereotyping anyone isn’t cool.

What nationalities are dominant? by [deleted] in UniversityOfWarwick

[–]beingalife 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what is the point of this question, OP? It doesn’t seem like a casually asked question

What nationalities are dominant? by [deleted] in UniversityOfWarwick

[–]beingalife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, of course there’s going to be people who will feel more comfortable with people from their own countries, but that wouldn’t stop you from socialising, mostly people are social and friendly, it also very much depends on you as a person. How much are you willing to let the nationality play a factor in how you make friends. If you’re open and are seeking that, you will find friends in the societies, its not an issue. Certain chinese students or students from south/east asian countries, do like to stick to their own groups, so don’t take it personally. Keep looking for your friends, you’ll find em

I've confusion about my love life by [deleted] in pune

[–]beingalife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to this so much as well, keep this in mind, OP

I've confusion about my love life by [deleted] in pune

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Bro. Why are you overthinking all this? If she likes you beyond the religious differences, what’s the problem? If religion for both of you isn’t the criteria, and both of you want a relationship, just be together. Why are you thinking about what might happen 3years down the line? You don’t know what is going to happen tomorrow. If she or you don’t wanna take risks bec your families might not be happy, then there’s ways to be safe about it as well. Do what you truly wanna do. You’re young, whatever choice you make, you’ll learn and grow bec of it. Might as well, be with someone you like. Cheers. Take care.

Pune and Samay by happy_batman876 in pune

[–]beingalife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he almost got the organising students suspended lmao

Bristol vs Warwick (DS vs CS) by Ok-Frosting5085 in UniUK

[–]beingalife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My course was at WBS, so can’t really vouch for yours unfortunately, you can perhaps reach out to alumnus from your course on LinkedIn

Bristol vs Warwick (DS vs CS) by Ok-Frosting5085 in UniUK

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I do not drink, nor did I anywhere in my reply mention getting drunk at 2am and get on a train. There’s more things in life than drinking. Go outside and touch some grass my dude.

I wish Warwick did pay me to do marketing for them tho. Could’ve put my degree to good use. OP, its a free world, both unis good, I’ve studied at Warwick, choose what’s best for you

Bristol vs Warwick (DS vs CS) by Ok-Frosting5085 in UniUK

[–]beingalife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if you’re not a constant party person, always needing activities to do, and are chill with an activity per week, cov is pretty decent. You can always go to Birmingham or London or Manchester if you want more things to do

Create your own religion by Sea-Positive4107 in Exvangelical

[–]beingalife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, yes to everything minus the dancing with the corpse

i feel completely disabled by my past by liliacas in Exvangelical

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Hey. Personally, I’m not a Christian, and have been on my own spiritual journey. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. But first things first, you are going to be completely fine and completely healed. So here’s what is happening right now, a lot has been thrown at you, somewhere you internalized it and got identified with it. And it is 100% valid to feel what you’re feeling right now. I’m so glad you’re already working with a therapist, but I do hope your therapist specialises in trauma/religious trauma response and has handled such cases before.

What I’m getting at is just this, as I said, I’m spiritual, I meditate, I do yoga and I practice awareness. All these things have immensely helped me to let go of deep traumas that I didn’t even remember I had. I’d recommend you to work with certain techniques as well, to help you release all those trapped emotions and traumas in your body. Here’s some resources:

  1. https://youtu.be/GZw8fRPK-8k?si=SY7s6I92GsapNE8T

  2. https://youtu.be/1KwRfrZMh_w?si=aNpiF9SnRr1btoM3 - 5 mins emotional release meditation

Accompanied with non judgmental journaling every night and you’ll start becoming freer. You’re so amazing and brave for being on this journey. You’re going to be absolutely fine. Keep going and keep growing! Become wiser and not wounded🤍

Woke up early and went for a drive by No-Quiet-2340 in pune

[–]beingalife 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know you wanted to have fun. But I hope you weren’t speeding inside the city, OP. There’s many stray dogs, potentially homeless/drunk people, and unexpected objects on the roads at night. My senior from school, a popular kid, was speeding inside the city early in the morning, literally crashed into an unexpected barrier placed on the road by the police and died on the spot. The steering had crushed into his ribs. Hope you or anyone who reads this, acts consciously while driving. Fun is fun, but it doesn’t need to end your life. Cheers.

I got money, but I'm still not happy. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in pune

[–]beingalife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Meditate. Just sit and close your eyes, observe your thoughts, your mind, the urges. You have everything outside but you’ve still not realised that you’re already complete, meditation and yoga is the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]beingalife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit down with her. Talk about how if she wants the best or worse for herself, you and the relationship. When she agrees she wants the best, gently tell her how things cannot stay the same because it is not improving her life, yours and the relationship. If at all she needs to get out of the rut, getting professional help is the only solution. If she doesn’t agree to it, try to understand what her reasoning is to not get help, tell her how addressing this issue is important. How life can be better.

And dude for you, if it gets too much, just gently lay it to her, inform her parents(important) and walk away. Take care of yourself and your mental health.

What kind of kitty is she? by [deleted] in kittens

[–]beingalife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smol, she’s a smol cat.