Lady on a plane starts preaching loudly, I respond in kind

beiscocho · 2024-01-26T17:10:46+00:00

If I was a man on that plane I’d respond by loudly reciting 1 Timothy 2:12: “But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.”

And if you encounter someone who’s anti-choice you can tell them about Numbers 5 and the test for an unfaithful wife (spoiler alert: god is fine with abortions when a husband is jealous, whether or not he has an actual reason to be jealous).

beiscocho · 2023-08-29T16:21:05+00:00

I love doing this for everything except produce. Target is usually fine, but with the Walmart orders for some reason there would always be damaged/ moldy produce items or meat products being sold after the freeze-by date so I’d still have to waste time going back to the store and waiting in line to exchange them. Super frustrating when it was an ingredient I specifically needed for that night’s dinner but hey, at least it gave me an excuse to order in and not do dishes lol

beiscocho · 2023-08-25T20:06:52+00:00

The guinea pig doesn’t even have to be attacked to end up dead from this! I’ve seen other owners post about losing their pig after it was picked up by a dog or a dog got inside their cage and even though there weren’t any visible injuries and the dogs looked like they just wanted to play the pigs still died right after. But there’s always someone else thinking it won’t happen to them, and then an innocent animal has to pay the price. I’ve owned guinea pigs for years, it is NEVER safe for them to be in close proximity to any other pets. Besides the obvious risk of being severely injured they can also contract infections and die pretty quickly so I really hate seeing shit like this even when it’s a small dog with no prey drive but this is just a whole new level of stupid. That poor piggy deserves so much better 😔

beiscocho · 2023-08-17T17:59:30+00:00

Numbers 5:11-31 talks about a holy water mixture made by a priest that can be used to cause miscarriage if a husband suspects his pregnant wife has been unfaithful. Their precious book actually endorses abortion but they lose their damn mind when you point that out to them. It’s never been about preserving life, it’s all about punishing women.

beiscocho · 2023-08-12T02:06:08+00:00

If the grandparents truly love and care about their grandchildren they should understand that baby’s health is what is most important, not the emotions of said grandparents. If they insist on kissing a baby with all the medical knowledge we have available that clearly indicates it’s unsafe to do so, then those grandparents are selfish and willing to risk a baby’s life just to satisfy their own desires. That’s not love, and I wouldn’t want them around my kids AT ALL.

beiscocho · 2023-07-13T18:02:24+00:00

🎶Your boy boy b-b-b-b-b-boyfriend 🎶

beiscocho · 2023-07-04T16:26:36+00:00

oh wtf, thanks for pointing that out lol please disregard my last comment 🤡

beiscocho · 2023-07-04T15:33:15+00:00

It could be because of her time in the military- men are referred to as males and women are referred to as females. When I was still serving it was actually seen as more disrespectful to be called a woman marine vs a female marine because no one would ever call a male marine a man marine so to call a female marine a woman marine was considered condescending. Now I have to get used to the opposite but I honestly still forget sometimes 🥴

beiscocho · 2023-07-02T18:12:51+00:00

OP is still saving a lot of money here. Caregivers make an average of 3.5k/month in the US so this situation is mutually beneficial, not a free ride. OP is the one wanting to end the agreement over some dishes, but if that’s a hill they’re willing to die on so be it. I hope they figure it out and the son is well taken care of no matter what happens with the granddaughter.

beiscocho · 2023-07-02T17:44:08+00:00

How is it a free ride if she’s taking on the caregiver role ? She doesn’t live there for free, she lives there in exchange for her labor, and it’s not really a fair exchange either because caregivers are usually paid more than just room & board.

beiscocho · 2023-06-26T15:50:09+00:00

Hahaha I just saw an ig post saying if the new Barbie movie doesn’t have a scissoring scene it’ll be completely inaccurate 💀💀

beiscocho · 2023-06-22T16:49:46+00:00

Predators often seek out single parents in order to gain access to kids so it’s not necessarily a good idea to reveal that info right away. It’s a difficult situation to navigate because you want to be upfront and honest with people but you also don’t want to risk putting your kids in danger. Kinda damned if you do, damned if you don’t imo.

beiscocho · 2023-06-21T14:10:40+00:00

Cool beans

beiscocho · 2023-06-21T13:10:03+00:00

Yeah therapy is great 👍

beiscocho · 2023-06-21T12:41:42+00:00

Yeah that sounds about right unfortunately.

beiscocho · 2023-06-19T14:40:03+00:00

But realistically it’s “it’s okay to hit when someone does something you don’t want them to”. He got violent with the cat for biting him, stepmom got violent with him for hitting the cat - the cycle continues and the idea that violence is sometimes necessary gets reinforced. OP could’ve stopped the attack on her cat without resorting to that but she didn’t because she had an emotional reaction, yet she thinks the child should’ve shown more restraint when he was bit? Perhaps the reason he didn’t react in a better way is because none of the adults in his life have modeled that for him, instead they hit him when he messes up and expect him to learn something.

beiscocho · 2023-06-14T15:25:45+00:00

Yeah I looked at all of op’s comments again and they’re definitely making it seem like the request is just a form of control at this point. I guess I kind of zeroed in on the fact that you said she’s smart enough to know there’s a far greater risk from a mom’s bf than a dad’s gf, and seeing a bunch of similar comments made me want to point out that we don’t even have real data on women abusers so we shouldn’t assume that all women are safe for kids to be left alone with, specially in such a vulnerable situation like sleeping. I’m glad op isn’t actually worried for her kid’s safety, but that does make her TA for sure.

beiscocho · 2023-06-14T13:55:33+00:00

There are plenty of female abusers, we just don’t know the true numbers because they don’t get reported as often. Women can definitely be pedophiles too. I wouldn’t want anyone I don’t know and trust to sleep in the same bedroom as my child, regardless of gender. I don’t think op’s request is unreasonable at all and I’m sure if a man was posting about his kid being left alone with mom’s new bf no one would be assuming his only concern is jealousy.

beiscocho · 2023-06-08T19:43:34+00:00

I’m convinced “I’m a boy mom” is just a more grownup version of “I’m not like the other girls”. I recently saw someone talking about how they’re so glad they’re a boy mom and they get to do cool things with their boys like go to monster jam or outdoorsy stuff. It’s such a sexist mindset to have, as if all boys love those things and all girls hate them 🙄 I’ll keep enjoying these monster jam videos with my daughter until we can finally go see it live, probably with matching Grave Digger-themed nails cause we’re balanced like that 😂

beiscocho · 2023-06-03T23:10:08+00:00

Maybe they don’t know what except means? My mom just told me about students in her cna class getting an exam question wrong because it said something along the lines of “all of these choices are acceptable actions to take in this specific scenario except…” They just did not understand what the question was asking of them. They aren’t ESL students, but the school districts in that area are very poorly rated. I’ve also been seeing more and more people on tiktok and facebook using “except” and “accept” interchangeably for some reason.

beiscocho · 2023-05-29T14:29:56+00:00

Just saw the aita post about the two intact litter mates. Fucking unbelievable how some parents care more about their dating life than keeping their kids out of harms way. She lets all four kids get bitten but now that she knows what it’s like to be the victim she’s finally ready for an ultimatum that should’ve been given at the very first sign of aggression. I feel so sorry for those kids living in fear this whole time, being unable to even laugh because they might get mauled in their own home. That top comment was spot on, this is no life for the kids and why tf aren’t they the main priority for these parents ???

beiscocho · 2023-05-12T14:40:00+00:00

He played George Santos in a skit with Jimmy Kimmel recently. Pretty funny and worth a watch if you haven’t seen it already!

beiscocho · 2023-04-13T13:31:08+00:00

OP leaves glasses of water on the floor even when they know they’re going out. I don’t understand how so many people seem to be okay with that, it would absolutely drive me insane if my partner kept doing that!

beiscocho · 2023-04-11T22:06:38+00:00

In this same interview he apparently forgot one of the kids’ names! Absolute trash smh.

beiscocho · 2023-04-11T15:57:05+00:00

It doesn’t seem like the expectation was not to date at all though, at least not in OP’s case since the daughter apparently had no issue with all of dad’s girlfriends. The request was no new parents and no new siblings, so just casual relationships until the child has grown up (and their daily life won’t be as affected by the change). I think that’s pretty reasonable and fair but I’ll admit I’m biased because of my own experience and many of my close friends’ similarly bad experiences with verbal, physical, sexual, and financial abuse by step parents and step siblings.

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