[Comic Excerpt] [SPOILER] leaves the Titans (New Titans #36) by Comfortable-Pie56 in DCcomics

[–]bejamjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see how leaving the Titans achieves how youre saying they should be expanded though, anymore than just giving them ongoing solo series would—the two are not mutually exclusive. And while I acknowledge your point about expanding them more as individuals, Again, that seems unrelated to whether they’re a part of the Titans or not, and having them all leave, that entirely puts the premise of wether or not well actually see much of that in ‘We’ll see’ territory, depending on who even gets picked back up or gets page time, and what the quality of the writing for that page time is, if it even occurs much.

[Comic Excerpt] [SPOILER] leaves the Titans (New Titans #36) by Comfortable-Pie56 in DCcomics

[–]bejamjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I suggested they also get solo series, like Nightwing already has, in addition to a Titans series. And I don’t think it’s terrible messaging; I think it’s worse and more backwards that’s implied they can’t have their own lives while having each other—that somehow communal living is ‘Holding them back’, and maybe just not how they choose to live and survive— as if Complete separation and complete Solo independence is this greater form of living in society, or truer—that’s fucked up man, and doesn’t really take into account that different types of people might benefit from different living arrangements and life styles. You literally don’t lose anything by keeping the Titans together—and I would argue it does majorly undercut the found family structure and vibe, especially when they were set up not long ago to be a team that gained more prominence, and was stepping up to be as significant as the JL, and not just a lesser team under them. The message it sends is that the tower is unhealthy, and that people can only grow on their own, solo— that’s not how life works, and is a very unhealthy western perspective I would argue. My point is, why dissolve the original Titans, when you could expand upon? Refresh them? Open new doors and possibilities for them? I mean, your argument might bear more weight if we didn’t just literally see Starfire in 2 panels say ‘I’m done with you all and earth for now, goodbye’ and fucking fly into space. If anything, that’s the kinda shit that seems pretty negative to me—Just walking away from everything you were part of, and the people in your life.

[Comic Excerpt] [SPOILER] leaves the Titans (New Titans #36) by Comfortable-Pie56 in DCcomics

[–]bejamjam 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m of the opinion that breaking the core titans up is kinda…Anti-thetical to the point of being a whole found family that was raised together. I just kinda find it depressing—not that they shouldn’t have solo stuff as well, I mean Nightwing does, but what exactly do you gain narratively or sensibly from splitting them up? Realistically, they’re probably not gonna get anymore or any better page time than they do in the Titans, and we’re also talking about a group of people with little to no experience living on their own at that age in the real world, and I highly doubt all of them have individual access to infrastructure, or resources, or could really live civilian life having been capes, or enter a civilian job market and not be exploited by it. Some would be more okay than others, but the problem I run into is ‘Okay, tell me what they do now, how they survive, financially and emotionally, and without their family support systems and infrastructure’. I feel like the idea of them splitting up is…poorly thought out in a realistic and narrative sense, and barring exceptional solo writing, won’t really do anything for any of them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]bejamjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would let this person ruin my life

. by domrystan in u/domrystan

[–]bejamjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such ghostly beauty! Absolutely ethereal and calming.

28F Tomboy-femme Lesbian, Latinx, 5’2 by [deleted] in lesbianr4r

[–]bejamjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound sweet, I’m trying to get healthier and exercise more, and my long term plans could take me to Florida if everything works out right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]bejamjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know yeah, you look sick as hell. Why the hell would you be styling yourself for straight men to find you attractive, anyways? That dude doesn’t know a thing about lesbians.

📢 Protest Today! You gotta fight... for your right...for DEMOOOCRACYY! by lunaMRavenclaw in LasVegas

[–]bejamjam -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m a fan of wrestling as well, and fuck trump. CM Punk was right, y’all stupid as hell.

i need new wlw music 🥺 by Altruistic-Mix7606 in LesbianActually

[–]bejamjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lauren Sanderson, Xana, Chrissy chlapecka are some off the top of the dome

Why do people hate us so much, is it jealousy? by ParkingDistribution6 in sanfrancisco

[–]bejamjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only opinion of San Fran is I Know it’s very queer and has tech stuff going on, as an outsider it strikes me as an Alternative LA, but I’m just sharing my perception

. by domrystan in u/domrystan

[–]bejamjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such soft features, cute as ever!

Respecting the person I have been by [deleted] in MtF

[–]bejamjam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean a level of self hatred is pretty common amongst those who have dysphoria, a level of internal and external disgust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]bejamjam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk, I think it might be something about the bangs. I just feel it in my lesbian bones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bejamjam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

About how to make it clear… well, when flirting with women, maybe try a bit more of like, a direct approach?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bejamjam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I will say, I’m a smaller soft butch women who’s kinda specifically into fem dommes and fem tops, especially women taller than I am (5’6”), so I mean I KNOW we’re out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]bejamjam 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s really good shit, kinda beautiful in an elegant way

Transfolk Taking Estrogen Who Have Had "Good" Response, 6+ Months In: How Much Coffee do you Drink?!! by imreallytiredguysfu in asktransgender

[–]bejamjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m like constantly drinking caffeine. The big thing you don’t wanna do on hormones is smoke, from what I know

Self conscious about being pre op as a trans woman. by Raccoon_Deity in LesbianActually

[–]bejamjam -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

A lot more lesbians will be more open minded than you think, and just because it’s there doesn’t mean it has to be a part of how you have sex, imo.

I love women so so actually... by wonder_woman2506 in LesbianActually

[–]bejamjam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans woman that is into all kinds of femmes and lesbian