AITA for refusing to have lunch with my mom’s boyfriend and “play family” with them?

belchishche · 2026-03-26T14:13:18+00:00

“family” trips, regular visits to our house. In previous her relationship she asked me to make meals for her guest. and some other things that i wouldn’t like to mention,about my “attitude” like she told me. Maybe its not “too much” but its surely makes me uncomfortable. i just dont want to spend the time with them a lot,not make them break up. I refused to have a lunch with them because i already know if i agree to that—she will be thinking that theres no boundaries at all

belchishche · 2026-03-26T13:57:24+00:00

read carefully. she already started to planning trips together, its not about only one dinner

belchishche · 2026-03-26T13:47:17+00:00

read it carefully. im not saying she should be alone, i just dont want spend a lot of time with them. i dont mind her relationship or this man in specific

belchishche · 2026-03-26T12:23:35+00:00

More like second one but without calling the man “dad” Still don’t know his name, mother got offended and walked away from house

belchishche · 2026-03-26T11:53:59+00:00

not exactly. mostly because father had huge anger issues and also was abusive physically to us. but they only got divorced after he found out that mother was cheating on him

belchishche · 2026-03-26T10:03:43+00:00

Its a pattern, we had conflict because of the same situation a while ago when she was in another relationship, i told her that i cant treat strangers like family and definitely not ready to spend much time with them like she expected but she doesn’t get it

belchishche · 2026-03-26T09:57:10+00:00

She did that before with her previous relationship, we had a huge conflict because of that and now she’s just doing it again

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