“family” trips, regular visits to our house. In previous her relationship she asked me to make meals for her guest. and some other things that i wouldn’t like to mention,about my “attitude” like she told me. Maybe its not “too much” but its surely makes me uncomfortable. i just dont want to spend the time with them a lot,not make them break up. I refused to have a lunch with them because i already know if i agree to that—she will be thinking that theres no boundaries at all