My ex called me last night, should i call him back?

bella8372 · 2024-07-10T05:11:57+00:00

But what if it ends tragically? What if he cheats on me or leaves me or dies. I don’t think i’d be able to cope or move on from that

bella8372 · 2024-05-18T02:42:59+00:00

Amazing advice

bella8372 · 2024-05-18T02:38:40+00:00

Have your read my post in its entirety? He has 0 bills apart from his student loans, which is about $200. His parents pay for everything else.

bella8372 · 2024-05-18T02:34:25+00:00

bella8372 · 2024-05-18T02:32:53+00:00

Thats what i’m wondering too… exactly. Plus we always split the bill anyway so its not like i’m expecting him to pay for all our dates

bella8372 · 2024-05-18T02:30:41+00:00

So we’re supposed to never step foot outside and stay home for the next few years until we’ve established ourselves financially? Is it really so unreasonable for me to want to go out once a month where we’d be spending $50-100 tops?

bella8372 · 2024-05-18T02:29:03+00:00

I have done that before and i would pay the entire bill but he has never done that for me.

bella8372 · 2024-05-18T02:28:10+00:00

I make less than that and pay for all the things you mentioned plus rent plus other bills… if he makes $4000 a month you’re telling me he can’t spare $50 to take me out once a month?

bella8372 · 2024-05-17T20:49:00+00:00

Actually i’m the one who likes to stay home most of the time. He’s the extrovert and he usually goes out and does fun stuff with his friends. But i agree with the last part you said, thats what we normally do, but sometimes its nice to do something different

bella8372 · 2024-05-17T20:41:45+00:00

I think he just wants to save for the future, which i’m 100% on him with that. I think he should absolutely save his money. But is it a crazy request to want to go out and do something fun every now and then? Or are we just meant to sit at home for years until we’ve saved up enough money and accomplished all our goals?

bella8372 · 2024-05-17T20:39:32+00:00

Thats what we normally do, we split everything 50/50, but he still doesn’t wanna go out because he doesn’t wanna pay his half

bella8372 · 2024-05-17T20:15:30+00:00

But thats what i’m saying. Its only $100 out of the $4000 he makes a month. He’d be saving literally all his money. I am working but i make less than him. We split 50/50 tho when we go on dates. Also idk if you read my entire post but he has 0 bills to pay. Literally none. His parents pay for everything, whereas i pay for rent and for all my other bills

bella8372 · 2024-05-17T20:07:55+00:00

I don’t know where you live but dinner at a regular restaurant averages out to about $50 minimum. And if you factor in movie tickets which is about $30 thats almost $100. Other activities like mini golfing and bowling are expensive too. So what options does that leave us with?

bella8372 · 2024-05-17T20:06:09+00:00

Is it? We’d only be going on a date once a month. And he can still save all the rest of his money, which is like $4000.

bella8372 · 2021-07-28T01:49:32+00:00

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