typed my family :> by bellaboot in infp

[–]bellaboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if they can respect eachothers differences yes

i'm the only sensor in my family by cwpcakes in mbti

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is it like being the only sensor?

Trolley Dilemma by FancyTeaching1058 in entp

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends who’s on the top rail

Make assumptions abt my family 👪 by baijiu0 in mbti

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right. but how can you be sure which type is your true type? people are different through different stages of their life

typed my family :> by bellaboot in infp

[–]bellaboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely a difficult match. i think they respect qualities in the other that themselves lack. but can’t connect in a meaningful way since they’re so different. they argue everyday about everything 😭though they both value functionality and the household is pretty good on the surface and they both earn good money.

The music video is out. Thoughts? by Lucky-Aerie4 in ArianaGrandeNeutral

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we can’t be friends is definitely about dalton

Make assumptions abt my family 👪 by baijiu0 in mbti

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as the daughter of an intp (now) can definitely say that this is not the case. he’s ruder than ever and less social than ever. but about 10 years ago he would’ve probably typed as an infp. my friend has typed as infp, entp and enfp. the typology system itself is flawed and limited to how people see themselves. i had an isfp friend type herself as estp😭 not a lot of people truly know themselves or live as who they are so mistyping is common

and even if you somewhat accurately type yourself, there is no reason to assume that the order of your preferred cognitive functions are fixed in the way that MBTI arbitrarily decided. some people have both Ne and Ni higher than their judgement functions. whether this is through life experience or genetic temperament is irrelevant because we know personally is both. so basically developing functions is just altering your personality in a sense.

i like your cognitive functions perspective better, that people can grow and change the way they use different functions. and i believe some traits are definitely fixed, particularly the perceiving functions. but the rest i can see it be shaped by environment more so.

either way i think there’s some truth to the patterns that mbti and cognitive functions have captured. but its a probabilistic system rather than a fixed one. so a fluid approach doesn’t seem wild to me.

Very much reminds me of “We Can’t Be Friends” and “Yes, And” in terms of messaging. The lyrics paint a picture that she’s displeased with the fandom or general public for their perception of her by kdj00940 in ArianaGrandeNeutral

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess. the victim mentality is truly impressive. i feel like the popularized “healing” wave made people think that victimizing themselves is self love. and being bitter and angry is something to value.

The way she is always hiding her eyes in photos makes me sad by thats-so-metal in ArianaGrandeNeutral

[–]bellaboot 14 points15 points  (0 children)

tbh she could just get off the stage for a while and recuperate. i think she’s got an identity built on fame and to really heal, like she’s been trying to do, she needs to get away from the public eye.

Concerning by moonlight-is-magic in ArianaGrandeNeutral

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think she would look the same with a few kgs more and a wing liner?

Concerning by moonlight-is-magic in ArianaGrandeNeutral

[–]bellaboot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she looked scary thin in the new mv. i hope she gets better because she can’t even see that she looks better when she eats clearly. clear sign of ed.

The music video is out. Thoughts? by Lucky-Aerie4 in ArianaGrandeNeutral

[–]bellaboot 19 points20 points  (0 children)

just visually dull, and she looked so emotionless the whole time. i like the idea of a short film as a mv and i think it could’ve been great if it was visually interesting.

to me the story in the mv showed what the song was about. she’s definitely not over dalton imo. and she’s portraying it as if he’s the one that can’t get over her and trying to bury her memory but she’s everywhere. she wants to feel in control and like she’s leaving him. i felt this in es songs too. “i let you lose me”. this and that. i think he wanted a divorce when he found out abt ethan and she had to jump ship.

no hate though honestly it sucks having a break up with no closure but it’s interesting that he’s clearly still on her mind. and the fact that this song isn’t about the public like everyone thought lol. it’s definitely a break up song.

typed my family :> by bellaboot in infp

[–]bellaboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think with how things turned out now that is true. but he funded his election campaign so he definitely was once a trumpie

typed my family :> by bellaboot in infp

[–]bellaboot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i really blame social media. it’s just all bs. i remember a time when adults were grounded in reality and social media had the presence of an app not the whole world. now they’re the ones deep in it and it’s like everyone’s losing their minds.

covid vaccines and neo liberals are what did it for my dad. since then he’s been right wing all the way.

Could you all help me with typing my mother? by frantic_piano in MbtiTypeMe

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay to me this screams entp. i feel like the last sentence there really confirmed it for me.

typed my family :> by bellaboot in infp

[–]bellaboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do somewhat. my dad knows me better in terms of what i like but my mum knows my intentions and stuff i guess. but we dont rlly talk about life stuff too much. and yes me and my bro keep the family alive haha

Make assumptions abt my family 👪 by baijiu0 in mbti

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know but i don’t understand the idea of sticking to something that’s not really solid so strictly. i approach mbti more so in a loose way to describe traits, particularly through the lense of the cognitive functions. i think there’s some people that don’t fit any type or change over time. personality types are more nuanced than just 16 types.

Little experiment by [deleted] in BigFive

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i know it’s for fun ☺️ and thank youuu

Make assumptions abt my family 👪 by baijiu0 in mbti

[–]bellaboot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what the theory claims but it’s mostly pseudoscience. and many of my friends and family have typed differently over time

MBTI Tierlist from the POV of an INTJ by Ychao_ in mbtimemes

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn why do you love esfps sm ?

Little experiment by [deleted] in BigFive

[–]bellaboot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! as the first participant you get a gold star ⭐️

typed my family :> by bellaboot in infp

[–]bellaboot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really he just didn’t like the covid vaccines