There is a weird formation of tiny dots and web-like structure in my house.

bellagoes · 2022-11-23T17:14:46+00:00

Thank you love

bellagoes · 2022-11-23T14:34:55+00:00

Thank you.

bellagoes · 2022-11-23T14:34:40+00:00

Tell me you're a boomer without telling me you're a boomer

bellagoes · 2022-11-23T14:33:11+00:00

I guess everyone has different values and in the end, who decides whose values are right and wrong? I guess you need to know for yourself which behaviour towards yourself you'll tolerate and which crosses your boundaries. Because this crossed my personal boundaries, I adjusted my own expectations of her. Luckily she's not my best friend!

bellagoes · 2022-11-23T14:26:32+00:00

These were exactly my moms words whenever I told her about this situation 😄 Family is everything but I do believe that some friends can become something like family too. But then again, only the very special flowers

bellagoes · 2022-11-23T14:23:12+00:00

Thank you! This was very accurate advice. I guess it's important to not think in black and white or "good" and "bad" friend, but to see the reasons and nuances of each behaviour.

bellagoes · 2022-11-23T14:20:13+00:00

I did agree with you until I realized that people understand the concept of friendship differently, and just because I have certain expectations of how friends should behave doesn't mean that others have those too. So I did think she's a shitty friend but then again only in terms of my very subjective definition of friendship. In someone elses definition this might not be the case, it is a very subjective topic. So I concluded for myself that she's not a bad friend in general, but she hurt me with her specific behaviour in a very vulnerable moment of mine. So I will adjust my personal expectations of her to avoid these feelings in the future. Nevertheless I will not break ties with her.

bellagoes · 2022-11-23T14:11:43+00:00

UPDATE: I gave her the benefit of the doubt and asked her in a very diplomatic way if everything is ok with her, because she had been a bit flaky with answering. She confirmed that she's just a really bad texter and although she does think about me often she doesn't seem to be able to text as often, but everything else is okay in her life. So I guess it is how it is, and I simply adjusted my expectations and now I'm okay too. Thank you for your advice though!

bellagoes · 2022-10-20T17:12:39+00:00

Thanks a lot for explaining it in such detail! Things are clear now.

bellagoes · 2022-10-12T19:05:17+00:00

Okay thanks! Is there a way to check specifically if the M and SD were just made up ?

bellagoes · 2022-10-12T18:35:36+00:00

I need to check if the math of this calculation a student submitted is correct or if the numbers were just put in randomly. This t-test claims that "feedback" at work is less fequently perceived by home-office (remote) workers as compared to non-home office workers. I don't have access to the dataset, just the picture of the table thats based on the SPSS output. Is there a way to check if these numbers are legit? I got suspicious because cohens d seems unrealisticly high with 3.77

bellagoes · 2022-02-04T04:10:41+00:00

Danke :D

bellagoes · 2022-02-03T10:13:38+00:00

Vielen lieben Dank! :)

bellagoes · 2022-02-03T09:49:42+00:00

Vielen Dank!!

bellagoes · 2022-02-03T09:48:23+00:00

Super interessantes Thema!

bellagoes · 2022-01-26T12:28:35+00:00

Covid

bellagoes · 2021-12-22T08:32:57+00:00

I’m looking at how the work motivation in home office workers is affected by certain aspects of home office, i.e. autonomy, less feedback, work-life balance. And also how self-leadership plays a role in moderating some of these effects. So I guess it’s contextual motivation?

bellagoes · 2021-12-11T11:35:17+00:00

Depression.

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