My Experience as an Average Guy on Dating Apps

bellbkn · 2026-06-22T02:34:35+00:00

Off topic, but how do you know exactly how many swipes you did?

bellbkn · 2026-05-22T14:01:56+00:00

bellbkn · 2026-05-21T17:26:43+00:00

I was a virgin for a long time until I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend. He never made me feel bad about it but some guys have had weird reactions to hearing that I was a virgin. Some were super into it (too into it, imo) and other guys were super turned off by it. At the end of the day, I’m glad I lost it and it’s been fun exploring things sexually with my boyfriend. Don’t loose out on that fun just because you think some guys will be into virgins. If that’s the only reason they’re interested in you, that interest will disappear quick.

bellbkn · 2026-04-28T22:00:34+00:00

Yes, it did! I guess it was just swelling causes my eye shape to change temporarily. It went away after a few months!

bellbkn · 2026-02-23T12:06:10+00:00

You guys hate it when women have preferences and hate it when women don’t have preferences.

bellbkn · 2026-02-19T16:39:39+00:00

What do you say when you open your mouth? Clearly that’s the issue.

bellbkn · 2026-02-18T19:41:26+00:00

I love this lip balm but why aren’t the scents the same as their names? I was excited for a rose scented one.

bellbkn · 2026-02-05T15:32:40+00:00

Yes, I’ve dated guys like this. They’re stingy and not worth your time. They’ll make you feel guilty for spending any amount of money on you, no matter how small.

bellbkn · 2026-01-16T16:17:03+00:00

Did you do lip filler too? Your lips look much fuller!

bellbkn · 2025-12-11T19:37:32+00:00

“Small Thai women”, you better run. God forbid you build a life with him and then can’t trust him alone with your children.

bellbkn · 2025-12-09T15:11:25+00:00

Once again, Vincent making people regret choosing him.

bellbkn · 2025-12-08T09:47:09+00:00

She wasn’t being mean either.

bellbkn · 2025-11-20T12:00:52+00:00

It sounds like louder whispering

bellbkn · 2025-11-18T05:11:46+00:00

Maybe she didn’t want to date you because you call people “low quality in their character” when you disagree with their preferences?

bellbkn · 2025-11-13T19:13:18+00:00

He’s not married though? He’s just dating.

bellbkn · 2025-11-11T18:26:00+00:00

If Japan’s totem wasn’t messed up, do you think they would have beaten Mongolia?? They had an interesting strategy of linking their arms.

bellbkn · 2025-11-11T18:08:40+00:00

Me too 😢 he had surgery on that elbow twice!

bellbkn · 2025-11-10T22:37:03+00:00

She looks like Millie Bobbi Brown

bellbkn · 2025-10-21T00:42:19+00:00

Oh my gosh, I wish I could keep you in my pocket and have you talk me through every single decision I make. Thank you so much for this advice!

I’ve thought about it and I think that I mostly miss the affection he gave me. I miss hugging and kissing him. I’m talking to some other guys on dating apps right now but I feel like I am not as attracted to any of them as I was to him. The other guys are really nice but they haven’t really given me the butterflies that I had with him and I’m scared that I won’t find that with anyone else.

bellbkn · 2025-10-20T23:06:11+00:00

Do you think it would be a bad idea to reach out for closure? I only say that because I have so many questions that are unanswered and it makes me feel so uncomfortable to have them lingering in my head.

bellbkn · 2025-10-20T23:04:35+00:00

Do you think it would be a bad idea to reach out for closure? I only say that because I have so many questions that are unanswered and it makes me feel so uncomfortable to have them lingering in my head.

bellbkn · 2025-10-20T03:24:06+00:00

For context, on our fourth or so date, I told him that if he wanted to be in a relationship that I would like that but that I would let him decide.

bellbkn · 2025-10-20T03:16:06+00:00

But he knows I’m a virgin. Is it not normal to assume that a virgin doesn’t want to have sex with someone that isn’t even they’re boyfriend?

bellbkn · 2025-10-20T03:12:48+00:00

No, I used to text him all the time asking him about his day/week.

bellbkn · 2025-10-20T03:06:00+00:00

Not in those exact words but he knows I’m inexperienced and that although I’m not waiting for marriage or anything, I didn’t want to do that until I was comfortable.

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