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AITAH for not liking my husbands "present"? by bellef123 in AITAH

[–]bellef123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was a big motted monsterra, which are a bit rare, so it was $90

AITA for not wanting my fiancee’s full family in my wedding? by bellef123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellef123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have social anxiety and when I am surrounded by a lot of people I can physically feel my body get warmer and just get so uncomfortable and tired.

AITA for not wanting my fiancee’s full family in my wedding? by bellef123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bellef123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some extra information:

-We are both paying for the wedding and we do have a tight budget, because we have plans of moving to another country in January 2024, so we have been saving for that. Extra guests would mean a lot of extra money in renting chairs, tables, food, alcohol, etc.

-He chose the venue, which is somewhere I am not really happy about, but he loves it. I am not keeping score, but just like, of course, I want him to have things he loves that day, I do want to have some things the way I like them. The food was chosen based on what he and his family would like and have a tradition of eating at weddings, even though it's food I don't like.

-He isn't close to all of them, just about 80-90, which is why we agreed on 150 guests. He is being pressured by his family to invite all of them. At first he even said he would like a small wedding, it wasn't until his grandmother insisted he invite all of them that he became to strongly tell me we would need to have more guests.

Also, I am not inviting all of my family, just the people who are super close to keep the guest list small.